My ex-boyfriend and I have been hooking up latley and we both like other people, but we don't live very far from eachother and it's very convinent to just find ourselves together. Is that a horrible thing to do that?! Do you think he \ we are emotinally attached still?
2006-07-19 20:53:55 · 22 answers · asked by Sunshine* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead cuz in the end its your decision to do what you wana do but hes your EX for a reason, right? So why put yourself in a situation that your gona wish you never would get in on the first place. If you ask me, the past should always stay in the past. And just because its convienent for you doesnt give u a good reason why its okay to do what your doing. Find someone to keep you busy. (other than your ex) Good luck!
2006-07-19 20:59:34 · answer #1 · answered by Janelle 2 · 12⤊ 2⤋
Only you two know the answer if your emotionally attached... but as far as hooking up it's a comfort thing.....I think that if either of you are in a relationship with someone else than you need to end this little fling or be signal.. don't' drag other people into this unless their aware of what's going on and by some chance are OK with it..
2006-07-19 20:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think you are emotionally attached, I'm pretty sure you still are attached, just aren't brave enough to face facts.
Any excuse will work, but no excuse policy and look at the whole picture and you will find that you both have some unfinished business.
Get on with it and quit using others to keep you apart, they are the only ones getting hurt in this mess.
2006-07-19 20:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by teddybearloverus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you're probably still emotionally attached, and possibly so is he. A fling may help you both to let go, but one or the other may start getting ideas again, and I mean emotional / physical effects, not something you decide to think about.
If you feel ok, and nobody (your/ his present partner), go for it. If you just want him back... that's not the best thing to do.
2006-07-19 20:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two just feel comfortable with each other in bed. And seems like your not both not ready to try a new relationship with anybody yet. But he may meet someone, and go for it with them and leave you hanging, and you could get hurt or the other way around.
And make sure you don't pass up someone else that could be more than just sex for staying With him.
2006-07-19 20:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, you need to stop that right now. you guys will never completely move on and get over each other if you're constantly hooking up. Get out of that fling right now.
2006-07-19 20:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by scrazygirl25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two have some chemistry going on still between the two of you. Normally ex's dont wanna talk to each other or try and not talk to each other.
2006-07-19 20:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are still emotionally attached to each other get back together and cut the other two people off and spare them the agony of finding out that you two are f&%^ buddies...
2006-07-19 20:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Your still attached to him as he is to you. You might think of what drew you guys apart, talk about it and try to move forward as a "real" couple.
SBG
2006-07-19 20:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Shay G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both are honest about it and know the real score, it is ok. Dont let yourself fall again and get hurt though
2006-07-19 20:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by bambi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋