im shy how do i ask her out i lke her personality more than her looks,she is not ugly dont get me wrong.im not a guy who wants sex,im a good kid,we are both 15,i talk to her occassionally through our friends.
2006-07-19 19:48:41 · 15 answers · asked by comptonktcsilent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep talking to her the way you are, but next time just say "hey, it seems like we may have some things in common" and ask her if she wants to meet up to do something. Not really the movies though, it might seem like you are coming on too strong at first, just something that everybody your age likes do in your area. And take it from there. You are on the right track, go slow and it always works out for the best.
Good luck.
2006-07-19 19:54:01 · answer #1 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 12⤊ 1⤋
If u can talk to her now. There shouldn't be any problems in asking her out. But u can talk to her and see if she wanted to move the friendship up to relationship. U should just tell her just how u feel. If she can't take then she not much of a friend in the first place. Most girl will understand if u want to be more then friends. U need to know how she feel first before u do anything else. But I am not that good about giving advice on asking someone out. Since I can't even talk to some guys that I kind of like, I hope that have help u out some.
2006-07-20 03:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason to be shy. You are young. Your relationships now are practice for your future adult relationships. You could ask her out and have a great time and become high school sweethearts. Always keep in mind though that no matter how much you like someone now, they probably aren't going to be the person you spend the rest of your life with. So what do you have to lose? Ask her out and don't ever wonder what if. Have fun and enjoy it while you are young. My fiance will be 34 in April. Most men his age have been married for ten years if not already divorced. You have your whole like ahead of you, there is nothing to be scared of now.
2006-07-20 02:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im facing the same problem with shyness and im getting better but i know how you feel man.......sorry im a guy answering your question.......anyways i think you gotta bite the bullet and tell her straight up....listen were guys....we are gonna get rejected no matter how good looking we are or how confident we are because some girls have boyfriends or just wanna be friends or are not interested in you.......so i say ask her out if she says no the nothing loss nothing gained....just make sure its not awkward between you 2 after that because i've dealt with that and it sucks.....no matter what she says still be her friend........but you could ask her out by saying i wanna be more than just friends....if you ask her out straight up then she might see you have confidence which is what girls love in a man
2006-07-20 02:55:48 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you just said sounded like a good start tell her what u think of her about her personality. She will totaly respect that n hopfully giv u a go. Just what ever u do dont lie to get into her heart
GOOD LUCK!! WISH U ALL THE BEST ;-)
2006-07-20 02:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. One day after class or during lunch, tell her how you feel. For all you know she might be into you too!Girls like shy guys, they think it's "sweet". I dont think you'll have a problem. Just have some faith and go for it!!!
2006-07-20 02:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by sarah_n_rj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she likes you back. But its always nicer if the guys ask, so one day just ak her out the movies, or to hang out somewhere,but whatever you do don't get a friends to do it. It's alot less confusing and rewarding if you do it in person.
2006-07-20 02:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by pink_kitties_and_rhinoplasty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey ! if your shy.. than u have to find a time when u can get her phone #. and just call her.. and let her know how u feel.. i mean if u dont try u wont know anything.. what if she got the same feelings?? i mean u never know before u at least try to make it happen.. i dont see nothing wrong with calling her when u like her that much.. u have to try.. good luck:)_
2006-07-20 02:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by natashenka_p2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because your so shy why don't you and your friends meet like at a pizza parlor and ask her and her friends to come, this is not so scary, kinda breaks the ice and if everything seems to be going good ask her for her number,maybe this will help! good luck!
2006-07-20 02:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by kelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by taking her out on a casual date by yourselves. (Don't forget to compliment her, but not in a creepy way.) Give yourselves time together, so you can decide when you want to ask her. Start out by telling her that you care about her, then tell her that you want to go out with her. If that doesn't work, give it time, go out by yourselves, and let her get to know you a little more.
2006-07-20 02:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by In God's Hands 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋