I'm bi. I went out with a girl named Kristey about5 or 6 months ago but all she did was use me so I broke up with her. Then I found out she was cheating on one of my (guy) friends and they found out. She blamed it on me, and now we're emimes, she even threatened to kick my ***. Even now after ALL this time any new people I meet, she tells them i'm a lesbian, slut, whore, etc. She even told our new next door neighbors we poisned her sisters dog! I dont know why she's still trying to ruin my life, but why? Can she not let go of the past when i've already moved on? How can I get ehr to stop? If I dont do something soon, I might do something i'll regret later. Help!!
2006-07-19 19:46:58 · 19 answers · asked by sarah_n_rj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick her *** !
simple as that!
2006-07-19 19:49:57 · answer #1 · answered by marius c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being gay or lesbian can be tough. Especially when you cared for someone and they were just using you. She may never change. The best advice I know is just be yourself. The people she tells things to and lies about you will be watching you. So if you just carry on with your life all the lies and rumors will be proved wrong. The end result is she will end up being the bad person. It may take time but the satisfaction will be worth it when a neighbor comes to you and lets you know that they don't beleive her and they become your friend.
2006-07-19 19:57:11 · answer #2 · answered by chrissm2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in this situation i can understand if you want to fight her and i would say to do the same back to her that she is doing to you...but i know that's juvenile. so i think the only thing you can do it talk to her (but it sounds like that probably wont work) so next i would just go and get a restraining order and just document everything she has done and tell people so you can have a record of everything she does and say to you, just in case she were to ever do anything to you or your property. then if she does just either press charges or take her to court. but unfortunately the way the law is set up there really isn't much the police can do unless she physically hurts you...sucks i know. so you might just have to wait this out until she finds someone else to put her energy into....sorry! but good luck
2006-07-19 19:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by emc251978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, go to the police and get at least a restraining order on her. Hopefully that will help at least a little. She sounds immature, and way too powerful for people's good. She didn't get what she wanted (to use you), so now she's throwing a fit unless she gets it. Hopefully she'll get the picture once the restraining order is sent out. Good luck! And whatever you do, realize that you are better than her. She's just some ***** who can't handle life, but you can
2006-07-19 19:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Charge her with harassment and get a restraining order put on her,i'd pay monet to see the look on her face,lol.
2006-07-19 19:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by kents411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN THATS WHACK i would confront her when she was alone && tell her 2 cut it out.&& if U have an adult 2 talk 2 tell them they may be able 2 help.But if was me I would kick her a**.sorri but sum ppl only understand pain && i would show her how much she hurt me by hurting her.
2006-07-19 19:52:05 · answer #6 · answered by nanahomie116 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just heering that she went out with a bi meens she has large issues. that should mave been the first sign. i would say ignore, but that obvious isnt an option.
2006-07-19 19:50:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a serious prob. u can take help of ur parents or some common friends or talk 2 her alone or take some legal action
2006-07-19 19:50:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her myself and discuss everything that is happening... tell her how you feel and take time to listen to how she feels also... you may be able to find a solution
2006-07-19 19:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzywishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words restraining order, one solution confront her and tell her if she does slander again you will sue her for slander of you character! then no more contact after restraining order is in place!
2006-07-19 19:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u did something that really hurt her and that she couldn't forget it..try communication..talk to her and tell her how you feel about the things she did..and ask forgiveness if ever you did something wrong to her...
2006-07-19 19:52:27 · answer #11 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋