im huge and un confident thats y i cant get ne girls i do have alot of girls that say if i was a lil skinnier then theyd date me they say im cute but im too big so how do i get girls ne suggestions and slimming down is in the process not so much slimming down as it is bulking up... but until then i need advice
2006-07-19 19:42:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm.....meet a 6 foot 200 pound chick...ahahahhahahahahahahah!!!!
2006-07-19 19:46:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After reading what you have to say here, it is my opinion that you Begin ReBuilding yourself from the Inside out.
I would suggest that you not look for a Woman right now. Figure out how to establish a more confident "You" first.
Make a Commitment to yourself to Improve something about yourself Daily, Weekly or Monthly. Start off small so that it is something that is possible to achieve. From there your self improvement will grow.
If weight is an issue then begin there. Maybe eliminate 1 thing at a time. (Eg. You might say, Just for Today, I will only drink Water when I eat something. Instead of beer, soda, kool aid Etc.)
I am not suggesting a Diet. I am suggesting Life Changes. Making Life Changes is not the same as a Diet. A Diet Limits you. Life Changes Work towards the Better good of your Totality. Body, Mind and Soul.
If you need any help, please feel free to sign up for my Free Newsletter at http://www.magicalchange.com
You are an Incredible person, you may just need a support system to show you this within yourself.
Don't give up, just make some changes.
Until later, Make it a Great Day!
Peace, Laurie
2006-07-20 03:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Magical Change 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG I had to take this one!! First at 6'3" you can't possibly be as big as you're making yourself seem. Cheer up. Anyway I consider myself overweight. I'm 5'7" and like 215. However, I put all of me into relationships and most guys don't appreciate it because they don't understand it. Treat ladies like you think they should be treated and I mean all ladies not just the ones you like. Treat friends, enemies, even strangers the same and one day someone will recognize what a fabulous person you are.
2006-07-20 02:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Future Mrs. Jarvis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6,3 300 pounds? doesn't sound that bad.
Black???! You shouldn't have put that up there, it isn't an issue. You should never date someone that would even care what colour you are, and white is as much of a colour as black.
Be yourself, if you are not confident try out some internet dating that will boost your self confidence and then go out with that girl.
Good Luck
2006-07-20 02:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm give me a "Hey, how ya doin?"
Seriously, talking with women that I know, alot of them are pissed Micheal Clark Duncan slimmed down. ASK the girls, I KNOW IT'S HARD, but a little courage goes a loooooooooong way in our books. Plus I bet more women than you realize, think you are GREAT just the way you are ;-)
2006-07-20 02:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by dizzygrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are a nice guy you'll meet a nice girl eventually you don't need to add or mention your color cause in this day and age it shouldn't matter, but one thing you could have mentioned was your age, not that that should matter either, but all I can say is just be yourself, and don't be aggresive, finding a nice girl can take some time
2006-07-20 02:49:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be you. if all those girls care about is appearance they arent worth it. I like bigger men and so do plenty of toher women. Someone will love you, lighten up a bit and smile even if u dont feel like it. some1 will find u gorgeous
2006-07-20 02:46:40 · answer #7 · answered by guard/girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i have to say may not be too much advice... but if someone wants to change you are they really worth your time???
2006-07-20 02:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzywishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude looks don't matter it counts on what is on the inside don't change because f what people think of you god made you like that for a reason!
2006-07-20 02:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by justinstitch2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. if i met a guy like you and you were good to me i would date you.
2006-07-20 02:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋