im 19 and the guy im going out with just turned 27...we've been together for 2 mo. he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and recently i have been feeling more strongly than just "like"..i know he feels the same way since he's been occasionally hinting it...i feel as though i can be with him for a very long time especially because hes a great guy and hes shown me wat it feels to be respected and cared for, for me and nothing else....what do i do? is it too soon...?
2006-07-19 19:37:18 · 12 answers · asked by katrina c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how can u possibly love him after 2 months?!!!! you are probably infatuated. you dont even know HIM (his true character etc) at all! 2 months its pretending and games and the desire to look better than u actually are....wait a year at least...my friend did what you want to do (after 3months)..and her boyfriend got freaked out and dumped her cos it was too soon and too much pressure...what if he doesnt love you yet? imagine how not-so-good would you feel if he told you: "Me too". JUST .because he didnt know what to say to you....he didnt love you..but because you subconsciously forced him to say it with your I LOVE YOU.. i mean, whats the most typical response to I LOVE YOU? probably: ME TOO ....Not many ppl can handle saying
"hmm thanks darling. hmm but i dont feel this way yet about you" because of course no one wants to hurt anyones feelings..........obviously he would say: me too or i love you too..but do u really need this forced response? wait till he says it. dont talk about your feelings...SHOW THEM..ACTION is the key...show how much u care..and you will show the love.. if you love him..show him that you love him..and then wait for him to say it to you...so that you dont rush things...cos trust me...those 3 overused words can be very dangerous..
2006-07-19 19:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by Feodora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are in love, why bother for the formality of saying the three words ? Next time you meet him why not ask him if he really wants to hear the three words. If the answer is "yes", let him hear. If the answer is "no", ask the guy to tell you the three magic words. Remember in love there is no time that is too early and it is never too late.
2006-07-19 19:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by lahirisoumitra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you feel the need to say it. There is no one here that feels what you are feeling, you are the only person that knows what's going on in your heart and mind. Whenever you are ready to say those three words you would get the urge to say them. Until then remember that you don't need to say it.. only show him how much you love him.
2006-07-19 19:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgirl78228 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We guys are the dumbest of the two sexes. We're dense and thick-headed. Hints are going to work with us. If he hasn't met your parents then introduce them over dinner. Please don't mention his age. Let them like him first. If you meet his parents through him then wait until after and then say I love you. He's gonna feel really good because we put off the meeting with our parents and feel guilty for it.
2006-07-19 19:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by jnabors6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love you is used to express feelings that can not be taken back or put on hold or given to another because one is afraid of losing the other, love is forever or nothing! love has no percentage it is all or nothing, so if you truly love someone there can be no doubt in mind! love roccks!
2006-07-19 19:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by sorrells316 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love happens at the proper time.
Liking leads to love for sex.
This happens between every man and woman.
In your case too, it is now.
2006-07-19 19:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you KNOW you love him, let him know. Don't be dissapointed if he doesn't reciprocate. He probably doesn't feel the same way. It shouldn't be a deal breaker. Let's see how you feel in 8 months...than try again...
2006-07-19 19:42:41 · answer #7 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too soon... go for it at this point i really dont think you could scare him away... so go for it if you are ready for a new part of your relationship
2006-07-19 19:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by fuzzywishes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take off all you clothes and lay down and close your eyes and hope for the best that he has a big one.
2006-07-19 19:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thows word's are very powerful just as nature. YOU will say them when it feels NATURAL to do so.
2006-07-19 19:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by digitaly_archived 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋