i'm an 18 year old girl and i' m in love with a girl...i have only known her for a month...we're not even that close but i feel that i love her...i'm scared to show my feelings because she might hate me...i don't think she's the kind of girl who would have a relationship with a girl...
2006-07-19 19:35:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would get to know her a little more! Show her ways of affection in small amounts and get closer. Become close friends and then eventually tell her. Then if she doesn't feel the same way, thats fine. If she's okay with it you can still become close friends.
Goodluck!
2006-07-19 19:39:41 · answer #1 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a very deep word, most people confuse a strong desire to be close to someone as love, but lets just say you love her! you are kinda in a delima! on one hand you have a good friend on the other if you tell her how you truly feel you might lose her as a friend, i think the best thing to do is to keep being her friend and if it happens let it but if not dont push it i mean any one can tell if someone has feeling for them and if you dont see her coming at you that way then dont but if she is call me and we can party :) jk lol
2006-07-20 02:41:39 · answer #2 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feeling are probably right "kind of girl who would have a relationship with a girl".
There are many different Love... try being a friend.
2006-07-20 02:41:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better you do not.Why do n't you love a boy instead.Be honest with yourself.Is this love to a girl a real love or just like?!
Do you need physically to be lesbian?or as a fashion you do so?
I saw many girls (teenagers) who acted as lesbians just because they thought it is a good thing.Real lesbians physically need to be lesbians.I think they are different .
Take care and do not tell her anything.
2006-07-20 02:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by Lili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of the time feelings come from false hopes and desires.
you might not love her.
in the meantime just try to keep your cool around her.
maybe someday you will get the courage if your feelings are still strong for her to tell her.
if she doesn't accept it then you might not like her anymore.
whatever you do follow your heart.
only you know how you feel.
2006-07-20 02:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by courtney the ho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not that close just bring up the subject of how would she fill if a gay girl came up to her and said the loves her.
if she says she would not like to date a girl DO NOT TELL HER how you feel
2006-07-20 02:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by gemini2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee...do u really love her???i mean maybe u dont love her in that way...cuz sometimes teenagers like someone very much that they think they are in love with them which is wrong...maybe u're just having a great time with her!u know...cuz u're 18 and there is a confusion about these stuff at that age...and dont take a risk cuz it's not worth it until u're sure that u are gonna get it back!cuz u know! u're gonna get hurt by her...
2006-07-20 02:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by /\/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by telling her you can turn her off or lose her friendship. you can find out as girls talk about anything. you can talk to her as a friend and tell her you really like someone but don't know if they like you type thing. if she has someone or is talking about guys she's with or been with, you'll know. you can talk without letting on who its about and test the waters.
2006-07-20 02:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could ask her what she think of same sex dating and that . Then u would know if she that type of girl or not. That would be little easser.
2006-07-20 02:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. she will make u feel like crap and if she is homophobic, maybe even worse
2006-07-20 02:37:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋