we went to school together since 6th grade and she liked me in 11th grade but i jsut liked her as a friend and after that i started to like her A LOT! and i decided to tell her how i felt and she told me she only saw me as a friend but i love her so much because when we hang out all i think about is her and what i can do or say to maker her laugh or feel good. but i dont know if i should just forget about it and stay as friends or keep trying and see if she later on sees me more than a friend. what should i do ??
2006-07-19 19:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by jack b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude i been in this situation. u need to get her jealous. if ur like i want to b with u then its to easy. u need to like look like ur having fun without her. go out alot and meet different girls. im not saying go hook up im saying u need to look like she is missing out. if she sees that she might just realize she does like u. im sure back in the day when she did she had to forget being with u. now look at present and u want her now but she stopped liking u and u became great friends. so yeah man either do that or u need to tell her deeply that u messed up when she liked u. u c now what a great girl she is and that u can make her happy. girls r different man. u never know what they want to hear but if u love her u dont give up. unless she has moved on with another guy. if she single keep trying. dont use love though. some girls get scared of that word to. its to fast and deep to say that. just tell her u would like a chance to make her happy. that u wouldnt want to regret not trying. at least if u do u know man. then u can move on. i hope she sees the light and u dont end up making mistake i did. good luck man
2006-07-19 19:45:14 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never Preassure any girl after they have already responded to the comment you made. I know ,No one likes rejection and i'm sure it was not what you wanted to hear. However it seems like you can look at this as very well taught lesson. It goes too show you when some guys have a good thing they let it pass them by and then when it's gone they want it back. Maybe she was in a relationship. Hey you got to give the gal some credit at least she responded some girls would have taken you for a long ride. So appreciate her for being honest. Don't worrie THER'S A GIRL FOR EVERY GUY. JUST LIKE THERE'S A GUY FOR EVERY GIRL.
2006-07-19 19:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by lizaprz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear Jack, it's a very delicate matter and it is difficult. What should i tell you. She wants only friendship and you want love, isn't it? So, if you really love her, don't hurt her. She wants you to remain her friend. If you keep trying, she may feel annoy or tired of you and she may tell you to leave her alone and I'm sure you don't want that to happen.
Jack, give her a little time. You said, she was in love with you before. Who knows maybe she still have some feelings for you but doesn't want to admit. I'm not sure. o.k. Give her space, time and air. Let her think and decide about it.
Sorry if I've hurt you, I didn't mean it. I only want to help you. If you keep trying, you can lose her forever, as a friend and as your love. Think clearly of what you want before doing anything that can hurt her and you.
2006-07-19 19:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't keep trying, you could loose her as a friend! Sorry but that could get really annoying, in her position, unfortunely you have to forget about it and move on...is it worth a friendship?Probably not!
2006-07-19 19:38:12 · answer #4 · answered by sweete_017 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it. If she told you she want to be friends, why should you keep trying? Do you think that she does not know what she wants?
Be cool...continue to be her friend and let her see your caring that way. If she has a change of heart she will let you know
2006-07-19 19:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can handle the rejection, keep trying, but DAMN those kinds of relationships are hard to achieve. My suggestion is just to move on. If she's into you, she'll come around. If not, ces't la vie...
2006-07-19 19:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will end the friendship if you keep trying do you even know if she has a boyfriend or not
2006-07-19 19:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by thisis j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it play out, Im usually like that too, I'll like a guy when he doesnt like me, if he likes me im over him.......for example a coworker kept asking me out and i was like 'ewww no thanks' but now that he doesnt like me I cant get him off my mind :/ lol
2006-07-19 19:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by angelbabe3009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so romantic. so you told her how you feel. Did you tell her what you asked? if you did it might change her mind.
2006-07-19 19:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes honey do it because no one can know that how we will become important in any one's life
2006-07-19 19:40:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋