ok i am stressing out over this situation and its so irritating. i am starting to fall hard for my married doctor, i think he knew what he was doing when he started flirting since day one. i was not attracted to him in any way.. he is a lot older than i am. he knew exactly what to say and when to say it and how often to say it(which is basically every time i see him) his smooth comments about my looks and his compliments made me start noticing him more. his gray hair didn't seem as gray, he all of a sudden wasn't the ''old'' dr, but the older distinguished sexy guy...lol he always makes it an effort to say just the right thing to me and it gets more and more personal as time goes by. he takes me in his personal ofc and shows me pictures of his kids, but never mentions his wife..EVER. the only way i know he is married is because i see the ring. it seems as if he is waiting for me to show him a little bit of interest. i think he has a clue that i kinda dig him, but im not to sure.
2006-07-19 19:15:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my question is, should i show him and tell him that i like him next time i se him or leave it alone... he is just sooooo cute it's crazy!!! and he is the one who started this all.
2006-07-19 19:16:25 · update #1
He is a professional and shouldn't be flirting with patients, especially when he's married. Where's his morals and trust with being a doctor?
He is using his position for his own personal gain, abusing the system so to speak. He sounds like bad news news to me.
I would see another doctor if I were you.
2006-07-19 19:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 12:16:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is serious about you, you should ask him straight up if he is married. Then if he says yes, just let it die right there. If he says no and explains the ring, then you should ask him if he flirts with his other patients. He may just want a piece of ***. If all of that checks out then I don't see why you couldn't go out on a lil get together...as long as you MAKE SURE there is no WIFE!
2006-07-19 19:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The advice I will give to you is that you should just leave it alone because if he is married and have kids then that is a problem. If ya'll two got hooked up then some day his wife will find out that he is cheating on her with you and that will just break her heart and the kids heart's. But maybe someday he might get a divorce then he is all yours. Plus you might want to give in on hint's that you like him so he will know.
2006-07-19 19:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by wemsamandab93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON't fall for him. He's obvisouly trying to get some from a much younger and beatiful looking girl then his older not so good looking wife. JUst stick to guys your own age.
2006-07-19 19:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan Silva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUH!!!!!!!!!You have fallen for your family doctor!Okay all this happens at this age but your case is just a little too much.He is just showing his concern towards youbut he does not love you or anything.Leave it alone before you become OBSESSED to him.Just talk to him as you always do and search for a smart guy your age.
2006-07-19 19:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing with your head stop it before you wreck a home don't get involved with this man think about his wife and kids do you want to be responsible for wrecking the kids life as well as the wife are you that shallow stop it now before someone gets hurt
2006-07-19 19:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by faxxon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked this question already. Evidently you didn't like the answers you got. NO, stop flirting with him, stop seeing him, it will go nowhere and only destroy you. Are you that desperate for a man to lower yourself to that. Where is the respect for yourself.
2006-07-19 19:22:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say but he probably does that to most of his sexy female patients...just a thought you don't want to get mixed up in an affair it can be quite messy....i know my brother went through all that already...poor guy just think you could ruin his wifes life.....and yours.just a thought
2006-07-19 19:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by thisis j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just a crush...let the doctor do his job. He cares about your health and all, but he loves another woman...Once you find someone else, this will go away....
2006-07-19 19:19:16 · answer #10 · answered by Fox 34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋