Ok there is a guy in my class i like. (dont we all ladies) i want to ask him out but we are friends. But i really want to ask him out. I've consider the friend approach but will he think im shy i maen were friends. I know you might say dont ruin the friendship but you dont know how hot he is!?!?!?! I like ♥ him to death. Any ideas?
2006-07-19 18:39:41 · 8 answers · asked by marquiejo13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe find out what he's interested in and go from there. My girlfriend waited 1 week to approach me (yes, she was very much interested in me). First she found out what I was interested in and used it to her advantage. She pretended to ask me questions just to get me to help her out. From there we talked and things got rolling.
2006-07-19 18:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by skwsith 2 · 8⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kinda guy he is.
if you think he can handle the direct approahc, just ask him out. say somethign like ," u have any plans on friday night? well cancel them cause u're going out with me." but u gotta say it in a very tongue in cheek manner, and if he's the right guy, he wont get firghtened away and will find you 'cute'.
but if hes the kind that will be scared by such aggressive behaviour, then just do the classic manner and say stuff like, hey, i got this extra ticket and mary cant go out with me, i dont want to waste it, why not go with me? i'll buy you a drink later as thank you for helping me get rid of the ticket!
good luck!
2006-07-20 01:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by GEN Gamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local starbucks or some other light and easy place and get some coupons,then tell your"friend" that you got a coupon for coffee or something, and want to know if he wants to join you. Once at starbucks,Tell him in a half joking way that you and him are kinda like going on a date...Later, during the meal,let him know that you wish you and him could do this more often...
2006-07-20 01:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him guys don't like head games and a reason for liking him should not be because he's hot.
2006-07-20 01:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by sbinder3111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop stalking him for one. then that should make it easier.
Now just go tell him that you really like him and want to go out. but do it towards the end of the semester or quarter that way if he says no, it won't be awkward
2006-07-20 01:43:55 · answer #5 · answered by Swift Ninja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get your hopes up. But if you both feel for each other than ask him out. But don't ask him out you'll start to look desprate.
2006-07-20 01:44:35 · answer #6 · answered by Beaute' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you want his help in studying. then invite him at your place. the next day invite him to the park in order to go over some homework.
2006-07-20 02:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt around a bit. then u'll feel more comfortable...ask him if he'd like to do something (something he likes) w/ u.
2006-07-20 01:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Carmen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋