I need Your Opinion, what do you suggest I do?

Question

I dated a women for 5 and a half years before we split up.

Soon After she, we'll call her G,Met some one and dated him a while. After and a year G Married him, without warning. We were still friends and I thought we still were open and honest. I was hurt and shocked. Had I known I would have told her not to marry him, how i felt about her, and that it was a mistake we broke up. But i'm not a saint, while all this was taking place, I slept with her cousin, but I still had strong feelings for G. Soon after G becomes pregnant, to her and, my surprise. She then told me she didn't want to be with him. I was hurt and confused.

Fast forward a couple of years later, i messed around with her sister. She found out about everything. we were still friends. And she's told me a long time ago that she wanted to be with me.

I really do love her and I know we both made mistakes.

Am I wrong for sleeping with her cousin and messing around with her sister?

was she wrong for not telling me she was getting married?

Waht should I, or we, Do?

Answer 1

you need to be with her
nothing else matters
life is way 2 short and there is no turning back
so u better make the best of it and if you feel like it should be with her and she loves you
then take her away with you

Answer 2

BOTH OF YOU NEED COUNSELING, FIRST, BECAUSE BOTH
OF YOU HAVE ISSUES, SHE MARRIED WITH A CHILD, AND
YOU JUST DONT WALK AWAY . BOTH YOU NEED TO REALLY
FIND OUT WHAT YOU REALLY WANT NOT THIS BACK AND
FOURTH THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE TO CONSIDER THEN
JUST YOU TWO.

Answer 3

if you both still love each other, and want to be together, then let the past be the past and be together. accept her child as your own, and enjoy your future together. no sense in being miserable with other people when you both could be and want to be happy with each other...good luck!!