ok so me and this guy were on and off for 4 years...we havent talked in like 2 years but hes was the love of my life...!!!!!...i kinda moved onn but now he has a new gfff and hes like in loveeeee with her...i dont know wat to do...i should be happpy for him...and his gf is a sweetheart i cant say anythign bad about her...but im sad...and dont say find someone else cause i dont have luck with that
2006-07-19 18:12:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try to move on since he has. u dont need another guy especially if ur mind is still on this one, try to focus ur energy on other things. think about urself and try starting a new hobby or doing something u wish u could do but never tried like rock climbing or something. who knows... while ur trying to explore urself u might find a cute guy!
the important thing is to think positively about his new relationship and not take anything against urself because of it.
good luck!
2006-07-19 18:17:12 · answer #1 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them be a big part of your life. If you have to stop contacting him for your own mental health that is best. I know this is hard to hear- but he has moved on. If you are hurt and don't want to find someone else (that's where I am) then learn to enjoy life as a single person the best you can. Hope that helps(:
2006-07-19 18:22:59 · answer #2 · answered by Roger S M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has found someone else then he isn't worth it. You don't need to be happy for him. It's normal to feel that way. But i would rather advise to look at it this way: just think that this is an ANSWER to your question whether he is yours or not. Means that it's much better he's with the girl than be with you and blame or leave you at the end just because you were not the girl he dreamed to have. There is someone out there for you. But mean time focus on YOURSELF.. don't hurt yourself more.. rebuild yourself.. and let them be happy as they are.
2006-07-19 18:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that your sad and confuzed just kind of cuz you were "together" for so long, and to see that he's moving on kinda gets to you...and i think its really cool that you can say his gf is a sweetheart, i don't know many people who can do that.
2006-07-19 18:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin you said his new girl is sweet be happy for him and like you said move on there isn't too much for you to do now. sorry i don't have anything that will make it any easier for you!!!
2006-07-19 18:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by karen c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i once like that..but if u still thougt abut that than u cant move on...make ur self busy..ok...and dont worry u will find someone better...just wait..ok
2006-07-19 18:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you need to give it time .don't rush in to be in love again .. or you will get hurt more .. or you would hurt some else ..take time for your self ..
2006-07-19 18:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE HAPPY WITH A NEW LOVE, THEN BE HAPPY FOR HIM
AND MOVE ON. YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT MAKE YOU
HAPPY, IT MAY TAKE TIME, BUT TIME TO LET GO.
2006-07-19 18:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reminds me of the song Truth is-Fantasia ,you should tell him and have him confused
2006-07-19 18:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your over him why does it matter...just leave those 2 alone.
2006-07-19 18:14:19 · answer #10 · answered by afmooseluvrx3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋