okay so I have this feeling with my boyfriend and I being together that i have never felt with any other guy...He makes me feel alive...and i love being with him..i find i miss him after being apart for 2 hours but i cant always see him which i think is good for the relationship because then it makes us closer becasue we cant see eachother...but the thing is..I've only been dating him for 2 days...what do you think this is? Love or Lust?? and why plz!
2006-07-19 18:09:33 · 7 answers · asked by luvgal792003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In a way im kinda going thru the same thing too so i know what your feeling. I met this guy thru a friend, only known him for two weeks and we are just talking. But i find myself thinking about him all the time and i can never wait to be around him. I just dont try to show it as much when hes around because i dont wana scare him. Just do what im doing and take it one day at a time. I know it sucks but its the only way for now anyways. I believe i found my soulmate. Do u think u found yours?? Maybe this could really be love for you. Good luck!!
2006-07-19 18:19:27 · answer #1 · answered by Janelle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is love or lust. Sometimes at the beginning of a relationship you get these feelings. I would say something to see if he feels the same. The goal is if these feelings last years down the road. So enjoy it while it lasts, and hopefully that will be a long time.
2006-07-20 01:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MATURE LOVE
*both are individuals apart from the other
*each accepts the fact that neither is perfect
*the relationship is strong in tough times as well as happy times
*the love gives each person energy to devote to all aspects of life
*the two people are close friends
*each person continues to grow as an independent human being
*there is joy in giving as well as receiving
*there is honesty and trust between the two people
*each feels a responsibility to the others well being
INFATUATION IS NOT LOVE
*the person depends on the relation for self esteem
*the person takes more from the relationship than they give
*each is jealous of the others seperate activities
*the relationship drains the person of energy
*the person is afraid that the other person will lose interest in them
*the person can only think of the other person
itz love !!!!!! just read what i wrote andu will see 4 ur self
2006-07-20 01:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by xoxobittersweetxoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way it is love, it is attraction, or lust, You know nothing about him, or very little. Trust me, Its OK to miss him and want to be around him, It may feel like he is the only one that matters in the world, because it is new. But it is not love
2006-07-20 01:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love. If it comes from your heart then keep him. Believe me. My husband was love at first sight. I had a great feeling in my heart. You should keep him he seems like a great man. Good luck to you both.
2006-07-20 01:14:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweat mamma bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hai........................ wait for day's
Some time it is only attraction & some time it is love but how much you can know about him? in love first you can trust on that person and for that you will know about him means his like....mind.....thinking about love......feeling about love with you or any other..............if you realy know what is love i can think so that you will understand what i mean
ok ...honey think about this pl. love is not only attraction because it is life of our heart
2006-07-20 01:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your infatuated by him he must be doing something right you think your in love all ready keep up the good work
2006-07-20 01:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kay D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋