2006-07-19 17:59:55 · 15 answers · asked by sassystar03@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a boyfriend of mine wanted to take his EX anywhere, I would not be pleased. You don't 'let' anyone do anything. If he wants to do it, he will. However, he is not being respectable to you by taking his ex to her dad's...I don't care how good friends they are.
2006-07-19 18:20:38 · answer #1 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-07-18 23:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I won't and i don't think it is selfish. I should know in the first place, that he shouldn't for reasons that i guess you also know. But my advice is talk to him. Ask him why he would want to go with the ex outta town to take her to her dads.. whatever his answer is.. tell him in a calm, gentle, and honest way that you don't feel good and comfortable and it bothers you about him taking the ex outta town to her dads.. simple words like this should hit straight to the point especially if the guy really cares for the relationship.. I believe that he should cancel the trip after you do this.. but if still says something like.. "..but we're not going to do anything..you have to trust me..etc.." try saying that you do trust him but it just doesn't make you feel good and it scares you.. if he still says you have to trust him.. then let him.. and walk out..
2006-07-19 18:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-29 05:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust him, yes of course.
If you don't, then you don't have a very good relationship...
It's very very normal for you to be a little bit worried, but if you love your man and you trust him then by all means, who cares? She's his EX right? He left her long ago- he loves you now!
2006-07-19 18:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by Chii666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no security issues, and you trust that there is nothing going on, then go for it.
HOWEVER, my rule of thumb is to never leave any woman, not even my mom, alone with my man. Never.
2006-07-19 18:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what planet did you fall off of he use to be her bf hello thats like you giving them permission to sleep together no you should say no did they ask you to go when he get back he will not be her ex any more you will
2006-07-19 18:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell to the no!! i mean even though ur bf and his old gf are close as friends i would really check that out i mean you dont know he might still have feelings for her.
2006-07-19 18:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you don't own him.
You don't have the right to "let" him go anywhere.
Face it, you don't TRUST him. If you did trust him, you wouldn't worry.
Handle why it is that you don't trust him.
2006-07-19 18:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by John C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course i would let him, but only if I went along also.
2006-07-19 18:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by marij 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋