My sons mother was a stripper and is very hard to find . My mother never gives me my mesages when it comes to my son I would love nothing more than to find him and give him a good life , he has 2 brothers and 2 sisters that he wuold love to know any help would be greatly appreciated.
2006-07-19 17:55:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I know his mother was going to die from lung problems I have done a people search and can not locate her
2006-07-19 22:34:38 · update #1
Why don't you sit down with your mom and tell her your feelings for your son? I mean you want to raise him, so let her know. If that doesn't work, contact people-finder.com .
2006-07-19 18:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by Catherine W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would begin by petitioning the court for visitation rights. Once you establish in a courtroom that your sons whereabouts are unknown, a host of options will open for you. Your attorney can best advise you on how to locate your son and get visitation started. If you cannot afford to hire an attorney, contact your local Legal Aid office http://www.abanet.org/legalservices/probono/directory.html
and check into your options regarding having an attorney do this pro bono for you. If you don't currently have partial custody, you might petition the court for some custody rights which will make it easier for you to end up with full custody should his mother die. Child custody and visitation and the child's whereabouts are all regulated by our legal system. Start there and good luck!
2006-07-24 19:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Dallas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it, you could try hiring a private detective to look for your ex. You should also explain to your mother that if your son's mother dies then he might end up in foster care unless she gives you the chance to reconnect with him.
2006-07-20 07:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by starchilde5 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u might wanna try sending her a letter to her last know address. (it might get fowarded to her address now) try doing a people search online for his mom. good luck to you. good job trying to support ur child. by the way just cuz shes a stripped doesnt mean he has a bad life. so i hope that not the only reason ur trying
2006-07-19 19:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by mekitty1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact the social security dept. Nowdays all kids have to have a social security number. If you know his first and last name and place of birth it shouldnt be that hard to locate him.
2006-07-23 17:48:37 · answer #5 · answered by Terifairi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to the police,im sure they will help. They should really understand this and want to give hima better home.Tell your mom that you really want to see your son and explain to her that he and that he means a lot to you.
2006-07-24 13:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe just keep looking,but i think its great ure tyring to find him because i am 13 yrs old and my mom had me with another man and he never tried to find me and i never tried to find him but i wish i could so i know how it feels to really want to find him
2006-07-19 18:32:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hire a PI
2006-07-25 04:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by mlm1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u give some names maybe more ppl can help
2006-07-26 16:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by shell4678 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋