I have always been a little bit of a loner and im fine with that, but with just my parents at home with me, and my work taking up a good portion of my time- how can I get out of my shell? ( I'm 20, and going to be starting my 3rd year of college in the fall) I just want to enjoy my 20's and not say the highlight of those years were hanging out with my parents and working at the restaurant I work at. I usually spend most of my time reading or on my computer- Any suggestions?
2006-07-19 17:50:54 · 14 answers · asked by kmrelo04 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do have a boyfriend( long distance for 2 years) and am known for my slight goofyness
2006-07-19 18:02:51 · update #1
I used to be the same way. I thought something was wrong with me too but there wasn't. I was the person that never got asked to do anything so I worried I was antisocial. The weird thing is that I'm super social and I learned that I lay-ed it on too thick and that was what people disliked. So, I started new to get away from my usual circles of friends. I took up a language class, studied a martial art, and took guitar lessons. I made sure not to blab too much and basically people started to like me and ask me to do stuff. Now I do so many thing with so many different people there is always something for me on a Friday night. And when I want to stay home I do. So, play it chill, get out and do thing-if you focus on an objective, the people will come. This works great!
2006-07-19 17:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
well hon there is nothing wrong with your life as it is now, so many people out there are social butterflies and are very empty inside, and very unhappy. but try some youth groups that are into legal activities that help to develop an individual, get involved in a sport of some kind, i would not suggest partying or anything that will not help to develop you. try finding a few friends and if you have some hang out together, but be wise and safe don't put yourself in situations where you might get hurt, if you are going to party, use the buddy system, don't let anyone by you a drink without you there, always have a cell phone in your pocket on your person and spare change for a pay phone and taxi fare, don't take rides with strangers, it may seem like I'm preaching to you but after finding out first hand the lengths guys will go to get you I'm warning you. anyhow whatever you chose be happy all the best.
2006-07-19 18:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl go to the club or the Bar. Quit reading and have some fun!! Meet new people take new risks. Do things you would never think of doing. Make a list of what you want to do before your 30. Do all of them too. You only live once! Have fun. Live every day to the fullest.
2006-07-19 17:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by littlepussycat_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get this book. "Always Talk to Strangers: 3 Simple Steps to Finding the Love of Your Life" In there it explains all about approaching the opposite sex. And finding someone. Now I dont know if thats your agenda. But It had good tips on even just being more social. I have read it and it has alot of good info in there. Common sense info. But good. And the book is cheap too :) GOOD LUCK :)
2006-07-19 17:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get into the stuff that the social people you know are into. Usually drinking or sports or just being loose and dating a lot of guys. But realize that these "friends" are also competitors and potential enemies. It's all just a popularity contest. Being more social is very over-rated.
2006-07-19 17:55:51 · answer #5 · answered by martin h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 23:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a Night Club and meet new people
2006-07-19 17:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Coot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He comprado muchas cosas en los sitios web y sabia que son de calidad pero cuando le compre el teclado de juguetes Simba para mi niña estaba muy pequeña y no sabía si lo va a gustar, pero me equivoque, nada más llegar le ha gustado mucho, tiene buenas canciones y sonidos de animales, que le encanta mucho y es uno de los mas increíblemente resistente cosa que he tenido, ha sufrido muchos golpes, se ha subido con los pies y aun canta, sin duda es la mejor compra que he hecho.
2014-12-13 19:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by GEIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first thing you need to do is make a new friend.
That friend will introduce you to her/his other friends.
There, now you have a group or friends!
Hang out with them, get to know them! They'll be happy to take you out with them. =D
You can message me if you really need some help with any specific issue ^^
2006-07-19 17:54:26 · answer #9 · answered by Chii666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and serve tables for a job. That is how I learned to talk to people and I never really stop anymore
2006-07-19 17:55:42 · answer #10 · answered by showtimegk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋