I'm 27 and I've never had any hobbies. I get bored easily. The only thing that I actually never get bored of is sex, or anything that revolves around sex. Is something wrong with me?
2006-07-19 17:39:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't know... Sex is one of the best things in life.
But I'm not a shrink, I'm just saying what I think.
2006-07-19 17:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Pelled Babby Schmidt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First, I think that if you approach boredom as a choice, it's easier not to be bored. It's a state of mind, boredom, and you can CHOOSE not to be bored.
As for finding interest in sex only, I'd say, yeah, could be borderline obsession. It's healthy for a person your age to be interested in sex and to be finding and experiencing sexuality, but it should not be your soul source of entertainment.
If your unable to stop thinking about sex, if you take risks like unprotected sex, your everyday life is interrupted by the want of sex, or often indulge in one-night stands and the like, just to satisfy a driving NEED then you may want to seek help.
Obsession often gets worse the more you try and stay away from the object of your obsession. Therapy can help, but only if you are truly serious about getting some help.
2006-07-19 17:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by Blissbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you're lucky. I have no real hobbies and no interest in sex. At least something about existence satisfies you. If you don't have any hobbies, then write down a list of things that make you happy. It could include entries like "cuddling with my cat" or "sleeping". Then see how you could make those hobbies- if you like cats, you could help care for them at homeless shelters or if you like sleeping you could research lucid dreaming, etc.... Anything can be a hobby.
2006-07-19 17:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lexical 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a sex addict and the root of it is that your addicted to the need of being loved. Your using sex to fill the void inside of you. Work on building yourself as a person and not a slave to the addiction. Of course find something else that interests you and has real meaning other than physical pleasure.
2006-07-19 17:47:45 · answer #4 · answered by supraracer87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be an obsessive disorder of some sort. Maybe there are deeper issues.
But it could also be that you are a human being. And humans instincts are to reproduce.
I dont know..But either way you want to look at it.
Good luck in finding a solution!!
2006-07-19 18:27:38 · answer #5 · answered by allhopelost6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be several things:
A) you're a nympho,
B) maybe you have adult onset ADD, which can be treated,
or C) you just haven't found your niche yet.
Try asking your doc about B, keep trying new things and see what works for you, and if A gets out of control, get help.
2006-07-19 17:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Prytanic_Kitra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so just take it as you have found sex as a hobby.
2006-07-19 17:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by redhead2734 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
helllll nooooo that is my favorite hobby and im 23, i found that is the best hobby besides NASCAR
2006-07-19 17:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by SUNSHINE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, sexual compulsion and obsessiveness usually comes from sexual abuse and abandonment issues from your early years. So, get some therapy - it can be very liberating.
2006-07-19 17:44:19 · answer #9 · answered by Robsthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think so
we r not created to have sex.there r many other things in life that is worthy of our attention other than sex
2006-07-19 17:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋