I just dated this incredible girl and we had nothing but an awesome time together. She used to date this guy (who was also her first boyfriend) who was controlling and verbally abusive. They broke up about 3-4 times over. Her friends and parents hate him. She would tell me how she hated the things he did and how she couldn't be his friend. Now we've broken up and they're friends, however she isn't dating him nor really hanging out with him. She's basically shut me out of her life, although she really wanted to be friends and still hang out. I still get the feeling she really misses me (she has to!) but we haven't talked in almost 2 weeks (except brief text message).
I just want to do something to get back at her/get her attention/whatever. I know that sounds childish but I want to do something other than miss her because Im sure it's over right? Unless God blesses me or something and she comes running back...
2006-07-19 17:23:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wont come running back I would imagine.
If I were you ask yourself why you broke up in the frist place. Then you have to fix whatever it was. That would be the only way to get her back.
2006-07-19 17:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't mean to burst your bubble, but ultimately, girls who have been abused like that are a lost cause. All they know is abuse, and they will keep going back to it, and nice guys like you deserve someone smarter and more mature. Sounds like you should move on to someone who has less issues.
2006-07-20 00:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she does come back you seem like a nice guy and her ex is an a*$!hole!
2006-07-20 00:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by *XOXO* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe if you tried telling her how you feel?
that always helps.
tell her what she means to you.
and if that doesnt work then maybe shes just stupid or something. no offense. :)
2006-07-20 00:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋