My boyfriend keeps coming up with excuses to not hang out, I have to go help my aunt, we're going to my parents friends house, etc. I've never canceled on him once. I dunno what I should do. Yesterday when I was supposed to go to his house he txted me and told me I couldn't cause he was leaving. So I said whatever c ya later I'm going swimming he got mad because I wasnt waiting at home for him. I told him my life doesnt revolve around him and I have things to do people to see and places to go and if you dont like me hanging out with my friends then maybe we should just break up and he never said anything I haven't called him or talked to him since then. Please help me?
2006-07-19 17:20:24 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl stand your ground boys don't make excuses for nothing. Do not sit and wait for him life is to short to not enjoy it. Keep on having fun without him and you might bump into the one that will spend the time with you that you are looking for
2006-07-19 17:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already broke up to me. You might want to clarify it so you can move on but even if he says you didn't, you should iron out that 'stay at home' thing. There is no way I would allow that!! If he's going to be a control freak, it's time to find someone who isn't and who doesn't cancel on you all the time. Either he wants to be with you or he doesn't. It sounds to me like he doesn't and is in the process of finding a replacement for you. Good luck!!
2006-07-19 17:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by roritr2005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are not happy. Let him know you need to talk about this. If he blows you off, you have the answer or sign you were looking for.
If not, then you can discuss what you and he are feeling and decide what to do from there.
Not talking together is a bad sign of disinterest. Good luck!
2006-07-19 17:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Khalen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he the type that he wants to run the streets but just wants you to stay in the house, but don't do it.
start canceling on him to show him how you be feeling when he always does it to you. start going out more and when he say things about you keep going out, say "maybe if you were spending more time with me i wouldn't be running the streets all the time".
OK, let me know what happens
2006-07-19 17:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty... forget about him. or at least for now. If he really wants to be with you he will realize he messed up and call you back and apologize. If he doesn't then you know you made the right decision. I mean there are so many people out there and so many that will see you for who you are and treat you as such.
2006-07-19 17:26:03 · answer #5 · answered by vermie2018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're this uncomfortable, you're probably right. Time to seriously consider going your own way, being open for new friendships, stop making the effort on a person who seems not to want your attentions and presence.
2006-07-19 17:25:35 · answer #6 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he full of **** he might be cheating that why he dont have time for u but the best thing to do is talk to him and tell him how u feel and hopefully he will understand where u coming from.
2006-07-19 17:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by blueinnocentjoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing fine on your own...just keep telling him the same things.
2006-07-19 17:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by intheholycity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the jerk. You deserve better hon. You find a guy to appreciate you. good luck.
2006-07-19 17:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he his controlling this relationship and you need to keep doing what you are doing. he is living his life and you need to keep living yours. if he wants to spend time with you then let it be on your terms not his.
2006-07-19 17:24:31 · answer #10 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋