Does it make u a whore to?

Question

my question before was, why do all the guys i date want sex ...i usually say yes to them ... i regret it after ... i lost my virginity at a very young age(14) does this make me a whore...i dont want to look like that!!! im 18 now

Answer 1

All guys just want sex, and you are a good person for giving it to them. :)

Answer 2

just cuz u lost ur virginity at 14 doesnt make u a whore, i dont want to call u a whore but if u keep having sex w all these guys then....ya know, but alot women that do that have low self esteem and u probably look great so ur esteem shouldnt be low, but whores have very low self esteem thats why they need men to make them feel worthy- not saying thats u, just kinda have sort of a sex diet try having more sex w the same 1 or 2 ppl than having sex w alot of different ppl, ive had my share but i lost my virginity at 17 and im 21 i didnt have sex w countless ppl and i still had fun n felt good about myself and i didnt regret anything, i said all of this because u keep regreting ur decisions, maybe u should make different decisions that would probably help

Answer 3

Libby, the definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting a different result each time. Why would you continue to date guys, knowing they want sex and knowing how you're going to feel afterwards, yet still do it? It sounds to me like you have a few self confidence issues. If you didn't you use the word "no" a little more often. 18 is a young age to be so sexually active, but if you're going to be sexually active, it's better if you're not sexually confused at the same time.

My advice: Do a little soul searching. Stop entering relationships you know will only lead to the bedroom. If that's all they want and you know it, then don't even start with them. Also, perhaps you should take a look at yourself and make sure you're not sending out the wrong messages. You can use the word "no," you don't have to be afraid of it. Many girls don't like to use it because they're afraid a guy won't like them anymore. But would rather a guy not like you anymore..or completely lose all respect for you. Because once you get stained with the image of "easy" it's hard to gain respect from anyone. Keep re-evaluating your self-worth. I'm sure you'll come up with a higher number each time.

Best Wishes!

Answer 4

No it does not make you a whore. You probably like sex or the feeling of it while you are doing it and then regret it. If not just say NO you do not have to do it. Finding the right person will make it seem okay and it will be. Many men are just in for the feeling, if you are not that attracted to them stay out of the situation. You are in control when it comes to sex. Try not making it so easy for them. The right guy will wait and it will be worth it for you.

Answer 5

First off, a whore is someone who sleeps with other people, almost anybody, for money.

As long as you are not charging the boys or requesting gifts, money, travel, toys, Jewels, etc... Then it's really just a case of making bad choices.

That is something you can fix, by yourself, by thinking through the moment, past the now and thinking about what could happen. It does not take as much time as you think to stop and think, instead of letting other people make your choices for you.

It's your choice, your life. You decide what you want and make it happen! Good luck.

Answer 6

just because you lost your virginity at 14 do not make you a whore, but if you keep going around just saying yes to boy who wants to have sex with you, then that is a problem. i still won't say your a whore, but i say there is a reason why you let any boy have sex with you. it might could be low-self-esteem.
maybe you just trying make them like you more, but most of the time they is just using you because they know you is gonna let them have sex with you.

Answer 7

You are not a whore.You are too young to have a complete control on your sex drive cos your hormons are on their peak.If you regret having sex after you date and sleep with somebody,then take it SLOW.Just keep in mind that you don't have to give yourself to every guy you come to know just because they want you.You don't have to have sex with everyone with whom you have date/romance/whatever.You can end it up any time you want.Give yourself more time before sleeping with them.It might work.Let the friendship grow , before sex.Target the friendship and relations for a longer period of time before considering about sex.Of course this is not what you HAVE TO do.If you want some shallow short lasting relationship with the opposite sex,then as long as you have protection,it's cool to have sex any time you want.But I guess this hurts you a bit...So try to target the friendship before everything....

Answer 8

you are not a whore that's for sure but an easy going woman ,yes you are...no matter how much you enjoy sex having it form the first date with just anybody that will make you look a bimbo...

Answer 9

No not really at that age none of us are the best at making decisions.
Your not a whore and if you were you would be a really hot whore if that's really you.

Answer 10

hmm, good job. If you have sex with every guy you date, well good luck and dont get aids...and ya, i would say that your not a whore but very very friendly and loose. So ya, you be a whore.

Answer 11

it doenst make u a whore to have sex but if u dont and the guy get mad then he doesnt care for u and i lost mine at 11