on a first date...what is your limit on how far you go with a girl? does it depend on how the night is going, the girl...or what?
2006-07-19 16:38:41 · 37 answers · asked by oh baby 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on the girl how far would you go
2006-07-19 17:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by beenwiredon 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I limit myself to non-sexual activities on the first date. A sensual massage is the closest that I would come to physical intimacy. Sex is a milestone of trust in a relationship and should be reached in due course. Besides, the fire that burns twice as hot burns half as long. ((BTW: all of the above assumes that this is the first date with someone that I’m truly interested in. If I just met a person in a place and we make a date out of it, then I might just go all the way because I don’t expect to continue the relationship.))
2006-07-19 16:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the connection. If the guy really likes the girl then I think it’s best to end the evening with a goodnight kiss so you both leave each other wanting more including a second date.
2006-07-19 16:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on a lot of things.
Normally, I would say no kissing on the first date.
When I was stationed overseas in Japan I met this Japanese lady one night at a club and we became intimate that same night (or morning as the case was). We were together for 11 months after that.
So it depends on the circumstances.
2006-07-19 16:43:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of things depend for me. I think if it is going well and there seems to be a connection, sure why not do anything. But if it doesn't seem to be smooth or not going well at all, I would stop at the kissing.
2006-07-19 16:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Dumbass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely, positively refuse to to go out on a date with a girl. I'm married and gay. If I were straight, I would say the furthest one should go would be a kiss on the cheek. It is a first day, after all!
2006-07-19 16:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not kiss a girl in the first date. I would go for the 2nd because if she agrees to go out again shes comfortable with u.
2006-07-19 16:42:23 · answer #7 · answered by Manraj C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are driving 70mph and your night start at 6pm and ends at midnight you can go go 420 miles lol.
if you are talking about kissing feeling that and sex the kissing is alright if it doesn't lead to getting hot and bothered because i don't believe in sex not being married so i am saving my self for marriage that's probably why i am still single. i haven't found a woman who is good enough to share my values i am sure their out there somewere most all the good girls are already married so there you go probably not what you was expecting but that me.
2006-07-19 16:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl....how far she lets you go.
Women set the pace of the relationship. Make him wait if you want to be taken seriously.
2006-07-19 16:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by DaddyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how far the place she wants to go to is. could be 1 mile could be far side of the world
2006-07-19 16:47:49 · answer #10 · answered by brian_the_lion2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋