She told a lot of awful lies about be, concerning peoples death, stealing money, and whoreing around. ALL WERE LIES!! BUT it's my husbands only brother and now they are apart. I confronted her and she ran away, never denied saying those things. She called me and said that she had forgiven me? well i have to admit it's hard on my husband, not having his brother. But he is on my side since this is not the first time she has done this, but the third time.I forgave twice, do I need to do it more?
2006-07-19 16:37:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I understand where your coming from, but as you said, 'its my husbands only brother and now they're apart.' and you don't want that. Tell her your fed up with this, and make sure she realizes what shes doing ISN'T acceptable. Then be the better, bigger person you know you are, and forgive her.
If this happens again, sit her down and explain this is ridiculous and your not going to put up with it. You did nothing wrong, and she has no right to treat you or accuse you of things like this.
2006-07-19 16:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this was her 3rd time doing this. well you know the 3 strikes rule... at this point shes out....to do it once can be forgiven...but 3 times.... this is a guarantee that she is not going to stop.
your husbands brother should not stop talking to him over
his wife telling the lies. unless he believes her over you and
your husband.
since your husband is on your side i would tell you not to
forgive her. he knows that she is wrong. so why should you
have to say your sorry.
its now time for your husbands brother to realize what type of
wife he may have, even if he doesnt want to admit it.
hope this helps!!!!!!
good luck in your decision.
2006-07-19 16:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by yardiesgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your SIL is a troublemaker and likes to play mind games. You and your husband are on to her and know what she's about. Either her hubby hasn't figured this out yet or has chosen to ignore it. Give it time. She doesn't hesitate to tell lies about other people and sooner or later she will tell lies about her own hubby. He is no exception to this. People like her are not worth the problems and hassles they love to cause.
2006-07-19 16:47:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, forgive her. Until you see change, don't put a lot of stock in anything she says and be careful what information you share with her. Discuss any interest except other people unless they are celebraties you don't know on a personal basis . . . movies, music, etc.
2006-07-19 16:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it means that your husband and his brother will be reunited, then forgive her..........You have to be the bigger individual here, since she is petty and childish.......I would stay as far away from her as comfortably possible, though.........You can talk, but you don't have to be her buddy..........Take care.............
2006-07-19 16:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-19 16:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should
2006-07-19 16:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do need to forgive her again...and maybe again and again and again...
2006-07-19 16:44:17 · answer #8 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋