Do you girls like your guys to be fat, skinny or somewhere inbetween, and how musch muscle do you like for "your guy" to have?
2006-07-19 16:31:53 · 19 answers · asked by two bit 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I'm kinda an all over girl. The only thing is I'm extremely sporty too. So the guy is gonna have to keep up with me.. I don't mean he has to run a mile with me or anything like that. I think it all depends on the guy. Their personality and interests matters more then anything though. I mean thats honestly all that counts! Also if a guy is all muscle it can be kinda freaky looking. But if you try to look REALLY good you could end up with all the wrong type of girls. I mean just be you and do whatever you want... do it for yourself not for everyone else!
2006-07-19 16:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you were askin' the ladies, but here is a take on it from personal experience...
I used to weigh about 310 lbs. I wasn't all fat as i played football and was athletic at the same time. However, i never got the ladies. I don't have a bad attitude or anything, but it just never worked out. I got injured and couldn't play football anymore so i decided to get skinny.
Well, i ended up getting pretty ripped. Let me tell you, i could get girls every time i went out. I usually never did anything with the though because the girls i attracted were usually really vain and just had shitty attitudes.
Since then i am only in average shape and have a little bit of chunk. I don't attract as many girls, but the ones i do attract are better people. They are not as vain as the ones who only like you for your body. So my opinion, don't be obese, but go ahead and have a little chunk. Life's to short to eat right and exercise all of the time.
2006-07-19 23:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by The Chucksta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like big guys. So definately not skinny. I guess just somewhere in between. Muscle is nice but its not neccessary. But these are just outward things. You can be the hottest guy on earth and have the worst attitude and personality. And that would make you the ugliest guy on earth. Looks are a plus, but they aren't everything.
2006-07-19 23:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the big boned guys, NOOO not fat just bigger, not frail and maybe a little chub so they can cuddle! :D As for muscle, Id like them to be able to protect me, but Im not into the whole 'built' thing, although if he was I wouldn't complain.
2006-07-19 23:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a little chub! It's nice. My boyfriend isn't fat but has a little bit of a belly and i just love to rub it and stuff. But he also has muscular arms. Well balanced. Skinny is gross.
2006-07-19 23:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Seinfeld 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter as long as he's a real guy he's loving, responsible, and caring. Well I think not too fat not too skinny but just in between is fine I love my husky guy!!!!!! Muscle....um.....as long as he can carry stuff it's fine. As long as he's stronger than me lol.
2006-07-19 23:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by nell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, it really wouldn't matter to me what he looks like if i love him, but, I seem to be attracted to thicker men, i am just naturally drawn to them. I think men are beautiful, all men, any size... but thick is my choice, muscles or lack thereof is not important... a handsome fella is John Goodman, maybe his size or just a little smaller, thanks for asking
2006-07-19 23:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Me I 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing about a guy to me, isnt weather or not he is in shape or not. Its his persoanlity, and him being comphortable with himself. After all you have to love yourself first before someone else can.
2006-07-19 23:39:23 · answer #8 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love men with lots of muscle like terry crews status but im fine with men who are total fit but they cant be like 350 lbs
2006-07-19 23:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by tlalteutli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter to me. personally i dont like morbidly obese , but a little chub is cute and manly. i like a chunky hairy man , its natural and sexy....but thats just me.!
2006-07-19 23:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by bec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋