OMG please Help?

Question

Ok so me and this guy named Corey broke up and i was soooo sad and stuff like he broke my heart and that was the Second time we had broken up...but anywayz today he had his cuz call me and tell me that corey still liked me....but i dont kno wat to do like i feel like a yo yo and like corey gets jelous over nothing....PLEASE HELP

I do still love him but i dunno wat to do like i feel like i am there whenever it is convenient to him

Answer 1

Breaking up is never easy.
But sometimes the not-so-easy things to do are the best things to do.

It sounds like your bf is making all the calls here.
What about you?
What do you want?
Do you want to continues being his yo yo,
or would you rather move on and find someone who respects you?

the choice is yours, but I say "Move on"

It's not easy, but it would be even harder in the long wrong to stay; cause this situation would be a constant.

Answer 2

Corey had his cousin call and tell you that Corey still likes you? Your man Corey needs to grow some balls and learn to do his own talking. How old are you? Geez. That's so middle-school. Don't be doing any stupid yo-yo dating. If he's jealous and possessive, that's not love, get away from this boy. There are plenty of other guys, (who can express their own feelings), who can treat you better. Oh, and another thing, I'm not trying to be mean here, but you need to brush up on your grammar, ok? Because you never say "me and this guy" and anywayz isn't a word, and your spelling isn't the greatest. So, my advice to you, and I'm completely serious: concentrate more on your schooling, and learn proper English, and decent grammar, and make something of yourself, like, go to college and make oodles of money, and leave Corey all jealous and stupid with his cousin, wondering what happened.

Answer 3

You ARE there when it's convenient for him because you let yourself be there. That's your own fault. You are enabling Corey to manipulate you any way he wants...and that's a selfish thing to do on his part. He's only thinking about himself here, not your feelings. You are getting absolutely no respect. Tell his Cousin you have had enough. Not interested. don't want to talk to Corey or hear from cuz. Just leave me alone. Go about your business reassuring yourself that you are worthy of a better relationship than this idiot can give you and go for a good guy next time. Do not be "friends" with Corey or any other old bf's. Just cut it off cold. Now do something nice for yourself and go have a fling with the girls. forget about Corey and cuz...aint worth the time.

Answer 4

Trust your instincts--if you think he wants to be with you only when it's convenient for him, then you're probably onto something. Sounds like he's playing games--having his cousin call you to say he still liked you. Why isn't he "man" enough to call you himself? How do you know he wasn't listening in on another line or speaker phone to hear your answers? Does he get off hearing you sound sad, upset, desperate?

If he's jealous over nothing, it's a red flag for potential abuse. You don't want to get to the point where he doesn't want you being with your friends, or even your family. He'll want to know where you are every second that you aren't with him. One wrong answer and you could be a punching bag. Jealousy is a sign of immaturity.

Sure it's sad to break up with someone. When you do it the second time maybe you need to reconsider who's right for you. You sound young--play the field and have a good time. The more guys you know the more you'll know what you want in a partner. Just remember, you deserve better than to be some guy's plaything. Good luck.

Answer 5

Ok. I think, what Corey is doing is, whenever he becomes SINGLE he wants someone, so he comes running back to you. I really don't see WHY you'de get back with him for a third time, when it will most likely end the same as before. LOVE is a big word how old are you? You don't just throw that word around, you may like him, but you have a lot of life left and it doesnt seem like its going to get you anywhere if you get back together with him. Do what you think is BEST for you, not what you WANT, many people mistake, WANTING a bf to what is best for them, don't be one of those people, think about what decisions you make and how they will effect you later on , that goes for all decisions not just this one.

Answer 6

You didn't say why he broke up with you this time, was it for the same reason that he broke up you the first time? He might be just playing you along as well. Make it hard on him even though you do care a great deal about him. Don't be that yo yo for him, where you are convenient for him. This time make him worry about you, wondering if you are going to take him back or not, play hard to get. If he don't take you back, then he don't really care that much about you, and it just wasn't meant to be.

Answer 7

Ok first of all please do us all a favor and stop using the word "like" after every other word, it makes you sound really immature and airheaded. Then, you need to get over the guy. From the sound of things you don't sound like you're mature enough to be in love with him, it's just a crush and nothing else. If you feel like a yo yo it's for a reason, go with your gut on this one. Dump the guy, get a new one or enjoy single life.

Answer 8

Corey seems to be taking you on that all-too-familiar rollercoaster ride. Show Corey your strength by declining his offer to get back together. Take the time to think about what you really want. You will feel better for it and you will be doing him a favor too. It seems that Corey also needs to figure out what he really wants. Good luck.

Answer 9

OK I'm a guy and i can tell you that men like that are just play in with your emotions. I know its a sad world but i feel your pain. Its probably not the answer that your loo kin for but any guy that breaks up with you twice and wants to make up is too volatile and immature for a real relationship. Find a guy that's interested in you not what you do for him.

Answer 10

sounds to me like Corey misses the lovING and not the lovER. It's time to move on hun. Some people just have that on and off and on again relationship...but that's something that probably won't ever change.