2006-07-19 16:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Environment is one factor that make a child become shy. I think lack of exposure, allow them interact always with other kids. You have to boost there moral so that they have more confidence to themself.
2006-07-19 17:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spirituality has nothing to do with it, number one. Number two, just because statistics found that on the measures used first borns out-performed other children born later in birth order. Any other inferences such that they are "more intelligent" are conclusions from these statistics. Third, these statistics do not mean that EVERY person will perform in the same way or that other measures of performance will not contradict the conclusions. It has long been held that first born children have some benefits that children born later do not have. This advantage does not always exist, but that merely means that the strength of the relationship is debatable. First born children are often expected to take a lead with other children and to substitute for parents at times. Not all first borns accept this responsibility, which adds variance and influences the strength of the relationship. Moreover, later children may attempt to out-perform older siblings. Many variables are involved.
2016-03-27 00:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the Bible even says some are born that way and that some are born "hard hearted" but we can learn to overcome alot of our shortcomings. I was born shy, and I still am, but I can get up and give a speech (which is the #1 fear, even before Death in the U.S.) simply because I can "dissociate" or remove myself from the fear. How? By realizing that everyone else has this fear and that by facing it I'm doing what everyone elses WANTS TO DO. So no shaky voice or hands, just talk and read whats written, look at your friends in the audience (HEY, their there to HEAR YOU so why would they want you to fail?) So think positive in those situations and you'll find out a giant secret, its all in our attitudes!!!
2006-07-19 16:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both.
Personally, I grew up timid and awkward at an early age. It didn't help that my parents were both condescending & brought me up in a sheltered childhood.
It would be best to send a child to a nearby play centre that the parent may drop by to monitor their progress. Start them early in their social skills.
Have them hang around kids their age. Let them develop at their own pace, never pressure them into something they hate.
Always important, love them unconditionally, support them whenever you can.
2006-07-19 16:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they're born that way... I think it's how a child -even from birth- percieves the primary people around them (mom and dad, syblings) and makes their own subconscious decisions for themselves.
2006-07-19 16:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was growing up, I just didn't want to communicate , I was more observant...most people took over your conversation any way. Sometimes you may feel that you don't fit in.
2006-07-19 16:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by lil-bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes they are born that way. but as he/she gets older they will come out of it.
2006-07-19 16:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by oceandollhouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im shy.i've always been.maybe some day i will open up.im berely starting to.im load to.i think its the env.
2006-07-19 16:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by yvette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they are just very good judges of character.
2006-07-19 16:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by pkb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋