It just seems my experiences in life after loosing the most important people I've loved including my soulmate and my dog of 15 years have occured in this order:
sorrow, anger, sorror, start life over again and again and again and after some time, which is different in each case, I gradually start thinking and remembering them less each day. I never totally forget but I think we all want our closest loved ones to be OK after we're gone...no matter what it takes....?
2006-07-19 16:20:17 · 9 answers · asked by aintthtapeach 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Absolutely. I believe our loved ones are closer to us once they die because they can then see us for our true self - they can better understand who we are and what we are about because they can be closer to us on a spiritual level.
I personally believe that we all came here with a plan - a lesson to learn - and we came with friends who turn up as beloved relatives, best friends, husbands, soulmates, kids, etc. If for some reason one leaves the game early it is either because it is important to the lessons we are here to learn or by accident - in either case, the one who passed very often stays near and tries to give help and comfort until the survivor can stand on their own again.
Once we leave here, we will be reunited with the most important people and we will regroup for another trip to the physical world after we get some rest. Enjoy the rest of your life my dear. They are with you and they love you and they want you to move on and be happy.
It can be hard to keep getting up when adversity keeps knocking us down. It starts to seem like the stronger and stronger we get the more difficult the obstacles - I am hoping that there is a cap! You sound as if you might be suffering from soul sickness. Please, be kind to yourself and try some visualizing exercises.
Close your eyes and sit quietly. Imagine yourself at ease, peaceful and happy. Imagine your loved happy too - really see them and vividly see you all happy and relaxed. 3-5 mins a day 2 or 3 times a day will have you feeling better in no time. Great to do at bed time, waking time and in the shower or something.
Take care! Peace!
2006-07-19 17:12:12 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 8⤊ 6⤋
The loved ones you speak of are only partipants in the game of life, in true reality there is no relation. We are individual spirits/energy beings who chose to incarnate for the experience and spiritual advancement. It may be possible that you and the spirit or spirits that played a part in your life may be a spirit you are friends with on the spirit level or it may just be random. I think once we die and know what life was and is after death you don't have the same feelings of a human at a loss but a since of accomplishment. All the emotions you felt are the reason why we as immortals decided to play this game amongst other reasons.
2006-07-19 16:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by commonxsense2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! Once you have died, or they have died. the loose ends will never meet. As a christian, I know the only way to peace after physaical death is through Jesus Christ. Jesus paid the ultimate price for all of us. And He is there for me. The only true losse end that is tied up in death, is Jesus will be my voice before God, and prayerfully I will be one to make it to Heaven to live with hin there.
To have it easy in this life! Well that won't happen! I pray that things will work out for you and you will meet Jesus, and you will be set free!
2006-07-19 16:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by fsh3i1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, the next thing you see after you die is The Lord.
Some have a part in the first resurection and those who await judgement are part of the second resurection unto death and eternal punishment.
2006-07-19 16:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bimpster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my teachings, "no". that is the whole "thief in the night" scenario where if you aint already ready, then you are out of luck.
several religions believe that you can be prayed out of purgatory and the mormons have also begun baptizing EVERY human who was ever born.
this really has the muslim and jewish nations at odds with them, as the mormons started this and supposedly assured the goverments of the muslim and jewish nation heads of state that they would not do this to the peoples of that nation.
watch out utah! you might be on the invasion list from the muslim and jewish military.
-eagle
2006-07-19 16:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by eaglemyrick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whith the dead, it is over, the living just keep on living. There is no interaction between the 2. Nor are there any second chances.
2006-07-19 16:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Arijan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its for the Living to care for the Living, And the Dead to care for the Dead !! We will always miss those we lost, but, death is part of life. There are no easy answers.Just keep going.
2006-07-19 16:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get involved into some real serious Bible Studies so you can learn about what GOD Says Concerning Your Questions!.....
2006-07-19 16:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unfortunately, there's no after life.
2006-07-19 16:21:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋