My husband is british, I met him when I was assigned in UK and got married over there. I came back here in the US, a year ago since my assignment was over. I keep asking him to come with me but he said he have a lot of unfinished business. A month ago, he called me and said that he doesn't love me anymore. He said that he is with someone and she's pregnant. I have his green card and social security number. How do I stop him from coming here and maybe revoke his green card.
2006-07-19 16:07:47 · 17 answers · asked by crissy 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Immigration
Sorry to answer a question with more questions, but:
If you married him while you both were in the UK, how does he have a green card? If he got it because you petitioned for him, then tell me, for how long is it valid? Is it a two-year card? If so, then his residency will die a natural death when the two of you don't show up for the interview to have his conditional status removed.
If he got his green card through some other form of immigration, such as through another family member (parent, sibling), there is nothing you can do about it.
HOWEVER
If he has a green card - even a 10-year one - and has not returned to the US in 365 days, he has lost his residency and the card is no longer valid. You don't have to do anything except feed the card to the nearest shredder, chuckling all the while.
2006-07-19 16:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by dognhorsemom 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing for you to do is move on with your life,
Why would you want to stop him from coming to the usa for?
I mean like you can not force him to love you>Especialy if has already found someone else,And as far as stoping him from geting into the usa Thiers not much you can do on that.Unless you can prove he deals in drugs are something to that effect,or has a criminal type back ground that would prevent him from geting in to the usa.please take my advice and go on with your life
when a man does a woman like that he isnt worth haveing around
if he done it once he will do it again.Send him his green card and
SSN number to him and thank him for geting out of your life>If he had stayed in it ,He would only make your life a living hell>I know you must feel miserable right now but give yourself some time and things will look alot better for you>Go out have some fun meet new people dont let this get to you.or you could try makeing him jealous it might work but if he is with someone else well it's hard to say what could happen
2006-07-19 23:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by popcorn 46 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Build a fence. Just kidding. Did he get his green card and ss# because you guys married? Sounds like it. If that is the case, I would contact INS and explain to them that he only married you to get the green card without you knowing that until it was too late and ask them what your options are. Either way, you hold what he needs if he ever wanted to come to the United States so you have all the options. You may even need some type of a lawyer. I dont know whether that lawyer should be a divorce lawyer or a lawyer versed in immigration type law.
2006-07-19 23:18:24 · answer #3 · answered by honiebee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Inform the immigration office of what happened, and that he might be trying to use his green card to get into the US. It looks like he only got this to come here, so you need to let them know that. They will revoke his Green card I think and will not allow him in if you request, especially if you were the one who helped him get his legal status via marriage. Make sure you follow up with that, 'cause people like him don't deserve to be here!
2006-07-19 23:12:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he'd leave the pregnant girl he's in love with if what he says is true. However, if he only got the green card because he married you, then take all that info to the INS department and let them deal with it.
2006-07-19 23:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Immigration & tell them he used you to get green card. I think you can prove it since he has never lived in US.
Sorry you met a rat in UK.
2006-07-19 23:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact the INS and Homeland Security. Also you might want to try to provide any proof of this and show documents of the divorce that is pending or when it is final.
2006-07-19 23:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would divorce him immediately and let the INS know that it was not a real marriage. Since you are afraid he is going to come to the US and hit you AGAIN, you might want to get a restraining order as well. DHS is always wanting to hear about terrorists trying to get into the US so you should probably let them know as well. Do you know any of the names of his al-qaeda contacts? ;-)
2006-07-19 23:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he needs is a passport, and he can go anywhere he wants. You can keep the green card and SSN.
2006-07-19 23:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by bwjordan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know a thing about revenge. He can get those back on a website anyway. I think you should go to the relationship category.
2006-07-19 23:10:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋