He is always sayin that he loves her and stuff but he treats her like trash! He said the other day that if she don't break up w/ him then he is goin to kill himself w/ a knife! (He really had a knife but he didnt do it!) He always tells her to break up w/ him, and tells her that he is goin to break up w/ her and stuff like that.She really likes him so of course she aint goin to break up w/ him! He is really nice to me though! He also ask her when he is going to get to have sex w/ her and she is ONLY 13!!!! He is 15! What is his problem???
2006-07-19 16:01:27 · 21 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They sound like they deserve each other -- if she puts up with it, then there's really nothing you can do about it.
2006-07-19 16:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by epiCure 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is she's 13 and he's 15. They're too young to be in a relationship especially with all this crap going on. This is a time in their lives when they should be having fun with a lot of different people. This situation doesn't sound too good.
2006-07-19 16:06:48 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?
Saying something and wishing you hadn't?
Or saying nothing and wishing you had?
I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.
Don't be afraid to tell someone you love them.
If you do, they might break your heart
If you don't, you might break theirs.
Too many of us hide our true feelings because we are too afraid to care too much, for fear that the other person does not care as much, or even at all.
Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what theywould have done, or could have had.
*What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?
*What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?
2006-07-19 16:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her and if that dont work then try finding a guy to talk to her that she might like..hopefully shell wanna go with him..that guy she is with now is only lookin for sex...i know im 13 and i went out with this 15 year old named perry..i think that might work just get her to talk to other guys chances are shell get over her b/f..it will take time but trust me..
2006-07-19 16:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by bossy_b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His problem is he is a jerk and treats the person who cares the most for him the worst. And as her friend, maybe you should tell her that she is not required to nor should she put up with a jerk like him. She should dump him and just enjoy being young. You nor she should tolerate that kind of crap at your age. You'll have to deal with these types of guys all your life.
2006-07-19 16:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by twanieskies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immaturity for starters!!! He needs to grow up. She needs to ditch him, move on with her life. She doesn't need to be treated like that, she needs someone better. Be a good friend and tell her that. But, then again, sometimes friends don't always listen to friends. Good Luck to her. All the best.
2006-07-19 16:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds dangerously unstable and potentially violent. The next time he tells her to break up with him, she should take him up on his offer. I think she is better off without him. Also, she should make it abundantly clear to him that sex is out of the question. B
2006-07-19 16:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok look at the difference in age, and we talking about a horny teen *** on now, and the rude stuff he just want attention, and if wanted 2 break up with her he would of been did it, and maybe she should take his advice and break up with him and see what happenings, and see if cums back to her ok
2006-07-19 16:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This loser is physo! She needs to leave him alone until he grows his immature a ss up. Talk to your friend and let her know she deserves to be treated better. If she doesn't listen go and talk to her parents about what you have seen and heard and let them deal with it. You would rather your friend be mad at you for a little while then sit back and watch her be killed or get pregnant by this immature loser.
2006-07-19 16:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds nutty if je threatens to kill himself cuz she wont break it off he needs serious help and she doesnt need to get dragged into it it will only hurt her please tell her to end it it will save her in the long run and if shes not ready for sex she shouldnt have it especially at 13 and he shouldnt be pressuring her
2006-07-19 16:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to kick him to the curb.she is to young for him any way.he needs to leave he alone.and find someone his own age to date.cause he doesnt need to date a 13 year old.and as for the sex thing he shouldnt be askin a 13 year old any way for sex.
2006-07-19 16:07:50 · answer #11 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋