My brother and his wife are expecting their fourth child. They have three girls, they just found out that this one is going to be a boy. They already announced that they are going to have a baby shower. But I have three kids 2girls and 1boy, and I never got two showers!!!!
2006-07-19 15:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Socially, its not acceptable, but most people no longer follow tradition. Its quite a disgrace. Typically the only reason a woman is to have a second shower is if something happened to destroy the previous items. You are right for asking this question, so no, she shouldnt, and for her to announce it makes the fact even more tacky. sorry.
2006-07-19 18:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by akr_86 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A shower for each child isn't too much. All children should be loved and welcomed into this world and to have a shower for each individual child is wonderful. Some people have more than one shower for a single child. A group at work gives a shower. Family gives a shower. Old friends from school give a shower. As long as they don't invite the very same people each time, there's nothiing wrong with it.
Showers are a celebration of an event yet to come. The more the merrier! (As long as people don't feel obligated, and that the true essence of celebration and blessing isn't lost in the shuffle.)
2006-07-19 16:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by woodsygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO...you never got two showers, so what?? This is NOT ABOUT YOU, HONEY! Geeze give your borther a break! If they want 2 showers, just say you're happy for them and don't be so jealous. You don't have to go to both of them. Stop your whining and help out if you want to be friends with your brother's wife. Give a little and you will be blessed indeed.
2006-07-19 16:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with having a baby shower everytime. You never got 2 baby showers because you never gave yourself 2 babyshowers. You have to throw your own party. Stop being upset about it and enjoy being an aunt for the umpteenth time.
2006-07-19 16:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by sincerely, see me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a shower for each baby - I never got one shower for any of my three (1 g and 2 b) but was always happy to go to my friends and family. Be happy for them - they finally got their boy and they are celebrating.
2006-07-19 16:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it matters. I think it depends on who's giving it and if they actually need stuff. I have 3 boys, but when they were done with stuff I would give it away. So each pregnancy I didn't have anything. So I had 3 showers.
2006-07-19 16:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by ******* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 09:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems alright, but i thought you only got one. My sister had 2 kids with her first husband, and only had one shower, one kid was a boy and one kid was a girl. and when she got remarried she had another baby shower, but she didnt have anything left over from her first two kids being that it was almost 9 yrs later
2006-07-19 16:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by tabbyjo27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, maybe some of her friends are throwing on and the family is throwing g another. My cousin had 5, the more the better!
2006-07-19 16:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by *FLIRTACIOUS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree w/ gina i geuss they just need boy stuff??? LOL
2006-07-19 16:17:13 · answer #10 · answered by Paul O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋