You see i want to ask this girl out over the phone but i don't know what to say this is my first time asking someone out so please help.
2006-07-19 15:52:22 · 15 answers · asked by JONATHAN V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To begin the conversation, you want to speak casually, keeping the tone light. When you feel the time is right, you say, " I have wanted to see 'name of movie' for some time now, and was wondering if you would care to see it with me? We could have a bite to eat before or after, if you would like." If she should say this does not fit her schedule at the present time, ask her if she would like to suggest a time.
Good luck!
~Because sometimes it is rocket science.~
2006-07-19 16:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by cheekandfolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Ask her if she's seen such and such movie and if she'll like to go see it with you. You can make suggestions on what you two can do together. You first need to know if she has a boyfriend or not. Try it in the mirror. Ask your family and friends. but I think you should just come out and ask her out and if she turns you down....just think positive though. You can aslo think of a lot of thing's:the movies, the library, a party, to a club, dinner, out to eat. You could say hi(her name) this is(your name) there's this movie(called) and I would like to see it and I was wondering if you would like to see it too. Something like that.
2006-07-19 22:59:59 · answer #2 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Johnathan you can do it. Just stay calm and act confident. Girls like a gentlemen to be confident. It makes us feel safe. Start off by making her laugh and talking about anything pleasant. Then tell her that you have to go but you would like to take her out sometime if that would be okay with her. Good Luck to you!
2006-07-19 22:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by my_first_love_85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be like: Hey have you heard any reviews about that movie_________. And if she says yes, good ones ask her if she wants to see it. Or if she says no, ask her what good movies has she heard of lately and ask if she wants to go to that
2006-07-19 22:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would be better to ask her outin person...but if u have to do it over the phone i would start a conversation w/ her about what has been going on then ask her if she has a bf, then tell her u don't have a gf and that u wish she was your gf because ________________________ (name why u want her as your gf...and whatever u do DO NOT SAY IT IS B/C U WANT A GF!!!!)
Also, DO NOT JUST TALK ABOUT TIPICAL GUY THINGS TALK ABOUT NUETRAL THINGS!!!!
2006-07-19 23:01:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lorraine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her up and say.....Hey Kim(whatever her name is), this is Bradley(whatever your name is), I was just wondering if you would like to go out sometime? I'm sure she will Yes, I thought you would never ask
2006-07-19 23:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by brat71825 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get up enough courage to call her and ask her out whats the worst thing that can happen all she can say is yes or no its not going to kill you might be surprised she might say yes
2006-07-19 22:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kay D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and talk to her as a friend and then ask her out.
2006-07-19 22:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by sammy22005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and relax. Be yourself, don't stutter. From what they told me Girls don't like insecure guys. Don't be insecure. Be assertive. Good luck!:)
2006-07-19 22:56:51 · answer #9 · answered by Gaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident girls hate when a guy seems to have his tail between his legs. Dont beat arounf the bush. " Hey ____ I was just calling to see what your up to for Sat. night you wanna go _____ with me?
2006-07-19 22:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋