Is it wrong for two people who both are looking to have some fun to hook up for a one night stand? Say the two people are fully aware that it is nothing more than that and no one expects it to lead to anything else.
2006-07-19 15:32:27 · 23 answers · asked by Ed5532 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's necessarily wrong, but then again probably isn't the best idea either. I think we all have the urge to do it, whether or not we admit to it. However, it is dangerous as far as potentially creating unwanted pregnancies and potentially transferring disease. Also, while it would be very pleasurable at the moment it's happening, it may also lead to feelings of regret afterwards. In short, it's not wrong, but simply inadvisable.
2006-07-19 15:46:43 · answer #1 · answered by George C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only people who can say that it's wrong are the two people involved. Because when you think about it, it's no one elses concern anyway.
When it comes to sex it's really important to be mature and responsible. It's just as important to be open and honest as well.
Let that girl know....There's a 99% chance I'm not gonna call you afterwards. Let her know exactly what you're after, tell her how you want things to go down. Otherwise she'll make her own assumptions and things could get a bit hairy.
Stay safe. You both need to protect yourselvs against std's and pregnancy. Use condoms and spermicide ( availible at your local drug store ).
Be aware of any consequences that could come up due to your decisions. In other words, there is no 100% method of birth control so if she ends up pregnant you need to be willing to handle that. Also like I mentioned earlier, use a condom. You have absolutly no idea where that girl has been and she does'nt know where you've been. Protect yourselves. Talk about these things with her, it's important because your life is important. Once you two have everything squared away then do what you will. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-19 15:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by ilah23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No as long as the two of you are at the understanding that all that you two are doing is having casual sex. I mean do not let your emotions or her emotions get involved then it is really up to you i mean if that is what u want to do. But as far as i am concerened i could never do a one night stand because i find it too degrading.
2006-07-19 15:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think...if both ppl are honestly just looking for a one night stand its ok as long as there is protection.
sometimes, you don't want the long process of dating and all that. which is totally fine. having relationship after relationship can be exhausting. but both ppl have to be sure that is what they are both after.
i hate how most guys are after this and the girl gets all lost and angry in the end.
2006-07-19 16:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by reemsh_2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is still true that whenever you sleep with someone,you are sleeping with everyone they ever slept with! With STD's running rampant these days, and some (like HPV) having no cures, one night stands are like Russian Roulette. If you like to take risks with your life, sure, go ahead. But it's not the smartest thing you could do.
2006-07-19 15:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. As long as you are not putting yourself in a dangerous situation
2. Both adults, and consenting
3. Sex, is PROTECTED from STD's and pregnancy
It's you life. Live it as you choose. But remember, do not harm yourself or anyone else.
2006-07-19 15:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both agree....both are aware of risks...it depends, it could happen with somebody you already know and it's not so bad....but just to do it with a complete stranger;I'd be careful
2006-07-19 15:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by maru_artmarina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah i wouldnt say its wrong, but remember to watch out for those pesky STD's k? That would be the only problem that I could think of....
2006-07-19 15:41:01 · answer #8 · answered by Viola Dragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't a bad idea. u both get pleasure out of it and u both will have fun as long as u both know what u are gettting into. don't forget to wear a rubber.
2006-07-19 15:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by nuttyp16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess if it's understood then I guess it's ok as long as u wear a condom and u don't do anything crazy. Just be safe and have fun
2006-07-19 15:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋