The situation is simple. He has a gf and i have a trouble Long Dist relationship. I told him everything and he gives me all the advice. Because i see him everyday and talk all the time, i slowly have feelings for this person. Yesteraday, it just came out of my mouth and he now calls me when he is avaliable. He even asks me out for movie yesteraday. I didn't ask for anything when i tell him that.....Why is he asking me out and taking a risk of losing his gf? What is he thinking? Sex?What should i do since i see him everyday?
2006-07-19 15:26:51 · 21 answers · asked by polinatora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everybody wants what they can't have..
2006-07-19 15:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by dbrady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that he might just want sex, obviously you want more.
As long as he has a girlfriend, I would stay away. Do you really want to be "the other girl"? A home-wrecker?
And remember, even if they did split up; he did it to her, couldn't he do it to you?????
However, isn't better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all?
First thing first; if he's really interested in you, he would dump his girl. If he's interested in you and trying to pursue you, he is obviously one of two things: a pig or not fulfilled in his current relationship.
I'd say, sit tight for a while and see what choices he makes. But don't influence or give ultimatums. Let him make his choices, and you can continue living your life until your two worlds mesh.
However, if it is work that you see him everyday, I suggest not even contimplating pursuing it. That just gets ackward, no matter the circumstances.
Good Luck!
2006-07-19 15:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have some hidden feelings that after hearing your oppinion made him more comfortable to come out and ask you to go out with him. I think if things arn' working in your current relationship than maybe you need to break it off and slowly try dating this guy you don't have to rush into anything and its better if you don't just go out on a few dates see how it goes and take it from there my motto is you never know until you try!!!
Good luck
2006-07-19 15:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not tied down and he's exploring his feelings for you. Be careful..if he really care for his gf, he wouldn't ask you out. Since he asking you out--one you are attracting him on a level he does not have with his gf, he may be bored or your just hot and wants to explore ...well you know.
Relationship--one or the other. Casual dating is up to you but it will get messy!
2006-07-19 15:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey right now you are like the apple tree in the garden of good and evil and everyone knows that a man always wants what he can't have. i wold stay wawy from him or tell him that you can only be friends.
2006-07-19 15:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by gunitpimpress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants no frills sex. A real man would never ask you out 1) knowing that you have a b.f. 2.) knowing that he has a g.f.
If he's not happy in his current relationship, why hasn't he already broken up with her? Think....
2006-07-19 15:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by grlinwhite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it. No matter what he says listen to what your gut tells you about him. If he wants to date you even tho he has a gf I would suggest that you stop talking to him. If he is willing to cheat on his gf to be with you then what's stopping him from doing that to you?
2006-07-19 15:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lisette F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you ask him what is going on and why he wants to do stuff with you and while he has a girlfriend. Tell him that you really dont want to interfere with someone elses relationship and that when you date someone that you wabnt that person all to yourself.
2006-07-19 15:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Waydell F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be just for fun but yet again it could be because he really developed feelings for you...pay attention to the risks he takes for you...it looks like to me that he really does like you though :) and when you see him just start talking and see if he brings up the date thing again :)
2006-07-19 15:34:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definately a player. If he's willing to cheat on her, then he'll eventually cheat on you if you two ever have a relationship together...
2006-07-19 15:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by George C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he`s already left his girlfriend she just doesn`t know it yet. he wants you probably to sleep with you, but if you do leave your bf for him he`ll always wonder will you do it to him too. wait and see if he`s man enough to leave his gf first, then give him hell for awhile and see if he still wants you!
2006-07-19 15:32:06 · answer #11 · answered by rapheal b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋