2006-07-19 15:00:21 · 24 answers · asked by Ronald P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take it real slow and don't invest too much of your heart too soon. See what kind of person you are with, don't become blinded by love.
2006-07-19 15:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Going into new relationships with "baggage" from the last one "OMG! She cheated on me, she screwed me, she took advantage of me......blah blah blah..." is not only a sorry way to start with someone fresh, but almost garantees the new person will latch onto the first ship in the night to get away from your incessant crying, whining and neediness. Try to go with a positive outlook, make sure the person you are hooking up with is QUALITY instead of Miss On The Spot For Now. If you ask lots of questions BEFORE you decide on this person for a love interest.....lead questions.....like...."What do you think about cheating? Have you ever cheated? Why or why not? Have you ever taken advantage of some before? Why or why not? And so on....you may avoid the cheated/screwer trap. Being in a hurry, or desparate to not be alone can lead you into relationships that are not only stupid, but hurtful, and may even affect your health (mental, as well as physical). Take your time. Try to spend more time picking a new mate then you would buying a new car! Ok .....do some homework! Good luck!
2006-07-19 15:10:04 · answer #2 · answered by rita ribs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, you're not a bad person, just bad choices. YOu know that already. You're stuck in a cycle of picking people that repeat the same thing over and over. You can't possibly like that much abuse, but you don't see how to end it. Sit down, take a deep cleansing breath. Write down 2-3-4 names of the past relationships, what was it that was attractive to you, what kept you in the relationship and what was it that ended the relationship. See a pattern? Recognizing that is the first step. If you spot a similarity in a future "maybe relationship", then, as Barney Fife says "nip it in the bud, NIP IT in the bud, Ange!"
Good luck.
2006-07-19 15:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say probably a little of both. I checked out your 360 page and the fact that you don't have a lot of porn type friends says that you aren't sleeze but the fact that you watch shows like wrestling and something about raymond could be altering your perception of women and how to treat them. Granted men swear they don't take those things seriously as a woman who has dated wrestling fans some trates will wear off.
But for the record all women are phychotic so no it's not entirely your fault ever you just have to find a woman who knows herself enough to love you the way you are or to help you grow into the man you can be.
2006-07-19 15:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is so easy. You are not a bad person. You have made bad choices. Learn what attracts you to the woman that have lied and cheated and look for those traits in the women you want to date.
If you see any, DO NOT DATE THEM!!!!
Good luck!
2006-07-19 15:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just bad choices. We all have been there, you just gotta pick up and move on. Your not a bad person. Just take your time and find a person that is true.
2006-07-19 15:08:57 · answer #6 · answered by LASHANNA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you know better than that. Bad choices and we all have made them. I'll give you some advise (which you've probably already heard but may need reminding) if it looks like a rat and smells like a rat them guess what? It's a rat.
2006-07-19 15:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by Mama C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just bad choices in men.
2006-07-19 15:03:44 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound screwed up and before you have another bad relationship get some therapy and figure out who you are. Stop whining and get going!
2006-07-19 15:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad choices from my standpoint but, you will have to do some searching to find out why you are attractive to men who treat you poorly and obviously do not respect you. Take care.
2006-07-19 15:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by bebe1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy dont feel bad your not the only one
not saying im like that but im sure there are many ppl who get cheated on but for me i wouldnt care lol i would just get me another there are millions of single pretty women out there so get up and go get one
2006-07-19 15:03:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋