is it wrong to date my ex husbands friend... even if he has been my friend longer?
2006-07-19 14:52:59 · 46 answers · asked by fuzzywishes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its not wrong,if he feels the same about u,u go for it,thats how great loves that last a life time,start,from just bing friends,good luck.
2006-07-19 14:57:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 4⤋
Welll, guys are funny that way. Even the bonds of marriage arent stronger than the Guy Thing.
And since you're divorced...hmmm. How long divorced? Friendly divorce? You and the ex "OK" with each other? Is he seeing someone else? (that'd give me the greenlight, if he was in a relationship already). Here's a thought, if you're still friendly with one of the outlaws (inlaws)--ask them to maybe ask him how he'd feel about it--that is, if you don't feel up to asking him yourself.
Of course, if you dont CARE HOW HE FEELS then you GO FOR IT!!!!
RUB HIS NOSE IN IT!!!
bye now
2006-07-19 14:56:21 · answer #2 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about it this way, would it be okay for your ex husband to date your friend, even though he's known your friend longer?
2006-07-19 14:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...it isnt a good idea to date your ex's friend. As a matter of fact, he might not want to date you because you are his friend's ex.
2006-07-19 14:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by CB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really i mean if it feels all right then go for it i mean my mom dated my dads friend when my dad and mom got a divorce but the point was that my dad was the one that was cheating on my mom not vice versa and as long as you guys are divorced now i dont see anything wrong with it and as long as u are both happy what does it matter right.
2006-07-19 14:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by psycholilblondegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't see the harm in it then no. your ex husband might not care anyway if he hasn't said anything to you about it yet. if he does, just tell him that you can see any one you like. but what if he turns the table and does the same thing to you. how would you feel?
2006-07-19 14:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by BrownSuga26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you had bad judgement picking your ex instead of this guy but there isn't anything wrong with dating him now.
2006-07-19 14:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. It's only his concern if you are doing it to hurt him and are letting him know that. As long as you are not be rude about it, date the guy. Remember, though, it's also unfair to the friend if you don't really care about him.
2006-07-19 14:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it wrong? No. Is it safe? That depends on your ex-husband.
2006-07-19 15:02:12 · answer #9 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's bad. But, if you don't want your ex to know about your new sex life, I'd find a different guy to date.
2006-07-19 14:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not unless they are better friends now. I would wonder about this guy's character. If they are still friends, than that is a litle weird. But if not, I think it is ok.
2006-07-19 14:54:51 · answer #11 · answered by desertchica18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋