i love him and we will be getting married and i dont want to be putting up with this all the time.so please help stop the madness!
2006-07-19 14:51:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
This is the beginning of a life of hell. ask him, "what are YOU doing?"
..he's cheating, he's the guilty one, that's why he thinks you MUST be cheating too. He is sick, controlling, emotionally abusive...you need to get out of that , sistah!
2006-07-19 14:56:04 · answer #1 · answered by Marlin Darlin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he wont let it go, you two might not be ready to get married. Unless he has a good reason to believe youre cheating, it may be time for an ultimatum. Something along the lines of "either let it go or let me go." Either way, y'all need to sit down and talk this out.
2006-07-19 14:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by ha_lynn2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but I think you would be saving yourself a lot of heartache by leaving him now. He sounds obsessive and controlling. I've heard those kinds of things before from my son's father actually and I couldn't be happier that he is not in my life at all. I got a call from his current wife asking me how to get away from him b/c he had become terribly abusive and started hitting her and it go really messy. I just think that that type of personality knows no bounds. It starts out small like that and the next thing you know he's crazy!
2006-07-19 14:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Happychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be accusing you of cheating because he's cheating, or he might be accusing you of cheating because he's insecure. Either way, tell him you're not cheating and that if he continues to accuse you of cheating IT IS OVER. Marrying him would be the most foolish thing you could do at this point. He obviously doesn't trust you, or he's hiding something. You two need to finish this conversation.
2006-07-19 14:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he wont let it go is already a warning sign for you. He doesn't trust you! Would you be able to live with a man who will constantly nag you about chaeting. If he doesn't trust you, he doesn't repect you. If he doesn't repect you...then maybe he doesn't realy love you. Talk to him. Sort it out before you tie the knot. Marriage is a very serious, very big step. Its not easy, believe me.
2006-07-19 15:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Katie J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will be no stop to the madness. the rest are probably right about him cheating. but even if he's not the above situation will not stop, it will only get worse. get rid of him!
2006-07-19 14:59:42 · answer #6 · answered by sheepherder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honestly let me put it this way......if you are cheating you got caught to bad deal with it.you ****** up not him......if he thinks you are an you are not then well you cant be in a relationship an not have trust.it wont work better yet to get married.......good luck on that!
2006-07-19 14:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by mizz_butta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one asap! He will end up being a controlling husband..... He has already started and you are only boyfriend and girlfriend!
2006-07-19 14:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...me, I'd put the relationship on hold for awhile. Sounds like he's insecure.
2006-07-19 14:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by keyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you can't deal with this situation with your better judgement, maybe you shouldn't be getting married.
2006-07-19 14:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋