Well, my friend is a very good friend. She has always been there for me no matter what the problem. But she has started to like this guy who is known to have ended and to have the worst kind of relationships ever. I know, because I used to be one of them. So is my best gal friend. He treated her horriably and ended things by cheating on her.
I'm afraid to tell my friend about him, because she might tell me, "Oh, you're just lying" or "You're just jealous that I got the guy." Well, she told the same thing to my best gal friend. When she was only trying to warn her about this guy.
Do I just let her see what we're trying to tell her about this freak or should I walk up to this freak of a guy and tell him to lay off her? Or do you have other advice? If you do, PLEASE fill me in.
2006-07-19 14:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by Tarryn R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends on how much of a "best" friend she is to you. If she trusts you completely, all you have to do is help her see the truth.
And if you're still worried, try collecting all the girls he's cheated on, and bring them to a convention where you would discuss how he cheated on you, and don't forget that friend of yours, lol.
~Thomas
2006-07-19 14:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by tomhanken 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok your gf knows already so maybe you could just mention to her that you dated him as well and that she should just becareful he doesn't have the best record with relationships. But also remember she is a big girl and can make her own choice. So once you talk to her about this drop it. Just be there for her when it all falls apart for her! We all have to make our own choices which could be our mistakes!
2006-07-19 21:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by browneyegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront this a**hole, but that is just me. Most of the time punks like that can't even look you in the eye anyways. You won't be able to get through to your friend, trust me. Go directly to him and lay it out so he understands.
2006-07-19 21:32:59 · answer #3 · answered by rufnready 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to let her find out for herself. once you have let her know there is nothing more to do but let her decide. just be a good friend and be there for her when she take the fall
2006-07-19 21:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tel her about him, tellher everything. If you care about her, youhave too. She will make the right decision and say screww him.
2006-07-19 21:33:37 · answer #5 · answered by race21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her learn on her own she'll have to
2006-07-19 21:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by KIMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋