I have a dilemma, my fiance said I have been distant from him in the last few days, yet I have rung him 6 times in the last day and he hasn’t answered my calls. What should I do?
2006-07-19 13:51:59 · 28 answers · asked by sexylilbiatch1988 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Have you been leaving messages? I know it sounds weird but my husband's phone is such a piece of crap that a lot of times he doesn't get my calls and just calls me back hours later when he gets my voicemail.
It could be a lot of things. He could be worried about you being distant or worried that you're going to leave him. At the same time maybe he is getting cold feet and getting paranoid that you are too. The only thing to do here is to talk to him - even if it takes a day or so to get ahold of him.
If I were you I wouldn't worry too much about it. You never know if something has happened in his family, something has come up or if he forgot his phone at home today. If there is a problem I'm sure you'll be able to work it through. Good luck!
2006-07-19 17:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
First you should find out what he means by "distant". If you are going to get married you have to be able to communicate! Trust me it is so very important! And yes Just before wedding time Stress runs super high! But you cannot comfort each other if you do not talk to each other!
2006-07-19 13:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cloudy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You agreed to marry somebody who do no longer love. Oh my god, what have been you questioning? you may desire to interrupt off that engagment immediatly! the outcomes of a marriage the place you do in contrast to your husband would be no longer something decrease than a disaster. you're being cruel to this guy who proposed, preferable him on and making him beleive you adore him on an identical time as you do no longer. stop this stupid and cruel activity and save the two your self and this guy an entire life of sorrow and remorseful approximately.
2016-10-08 02:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make a big deal out of it. Everyone acts strange before the wedding, this is a very high stress time. Ask him what you could do to make him feel better.
2006-07-19 13:54:15 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Mad Maddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave him a message saying you would like to talk and you are a bit concerned. Then say if he needs space you are willing to work things out. Then wait until he calls and don't argue.
2006-07-19 13:54:38 · answer #5 · answered by jason32ok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he is having second thoughts or if something else is on his mind. Seems that he is the distant one. You just need to know why. Good luck.
2006-07-19 13:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by April G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's the distant one here? Time to move on?
2006-07-19 13:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Somethings up with him. Guys have a way to turn things around and make it look like your the one with the problem. Don't buy into it. Trust your instincts.
2006-07-19 13:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Teslajuliet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a message that says if he doesnt call you back within the next 24 hours, you WILL shag some one else.
2006-07-19 13:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by tmdkshaft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like something is up with him and he is trying to blame you. When he calls, have an honest chat to uncover the real situation going on.
2006-07-19 13:53:30 · answer #10 · answered by yowhatsup2day 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋