i had a guy to blame me for his mistake of him getting caught talking to my other friend and tell her the same stuff he told me he had been trying to date us both and i heard about it and my and my friend talked and he found out and he asked me why did i do that? he told me i was foul cause i told her he was trying to talk to me
2006-07-19 13:45:39 · 18 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is a typical male thing. when they do something really wrong their guilt comes out as getting nasty to us or blaming us for what theyve done wrong. always the they way isnt it
2006-07-19 13:49:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a dog in heat if he's trying to date you and your friend knowing that you both know each other. That is some scandalous stuff. There are real men in the world that will take care of your every want and need and love doing it. Save yourself for someone like that. Don't give in!! Save yourself for a man that really deserves you. Do you right now and take care of home. When the time is right your prince charming will enter your life. Don't sweat the small stuff and he sounds like small stuff.
2006-07-19 13:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly most of guys that act like that will never take the blame for something they did. They end up looking for someone else to blame for their mistakes.You did nothing but expose his plan to have 2 girlfriends. just let things blow over you don't need a guy like that anyways.
2006-07-19 13:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by antonia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have a few basic defense mechanisms
1) when in doubt...deny, deny, deny
2) this is your fault....blah blah blah
there are a few more, but basically you busted him, he is trying to make you feel like you did something wrong, when he is the guilty one
sorry ladies, it does not always get better with age LOL
2006-07-19 13:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by Willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They men blame us women because they dont know how else to get away with it.
2006-07-19 13:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, the specific adult adult males who rape are unable to self administration needless to say. Your question assumes that each and every person adult adult males are ability rapists. i'm specific which you meant "would not this theory paint a image of RAPISTS as incapable of capability of will, animalistic, or barbaric? properly, if so, my answer is certain, it does, and with good reason. i do no longer blame the sufferer, yet I additionally do no longer think of of all adult adult males being rapists or all rapists being adult adult males.
2016-12-10 10:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if they don't they won't have any1 to blame but themselves and they hate blaming themselves because they are conceited!
2006-07-19 13:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by tigi1912 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The solution is to obviously forgive him, and belive him if he apologizes.
I'm kidding by the way. That's what most girls do.
2006-07-19 13:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do not know how to handle things, so they blame us!
2006-07-19 13:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same thing happen to me except my friend got pissed at me. like it was my fault we had been friends for like 10years.
men suck
2006-07-19 14:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋