Ordering a drink............attractive women. Help?

Question

Ok, im at a bar. I go to order a drink and theres a beautiful, attractive girl next to me while im ordering. I dont know if this makes sense but what is a drink that i could order that would impress her??

Guys answer too.

Answer 1

I can tell you what wouldn't impress me.

Coors light
any light beer
Budweiser
MGD - none of these beers say you are adventurous or any different than the other thousand guys who will hit on me tonight.
Midori Sour
Anything Pink
Anything obnoxiously coloured
Anything with 'Malibu' in the title
Mudslides
Bailey's and anything
White russians



If you are at a club, then any clear or with coke would be ok. Especially if you ordered it with a top shelf alcohol. I'd know that you enjoy better things in life. It's not about money, it's about class. For example - you'd order Ketel One & Tonic over Vodka & tonic. You'd order a bacardi & coke over a rum & coke. In the long run, the extra dollar for a top shelf liquor makes you not look cheap.

If you like Martinis, then those can be impressive as well. Gin or Vodka, but I prefer Gin. And again, it has to be *good* liquor so that it looks like you know what you like. In a typical bar, Sapphire will be one of the better Gins and Belvedere will be a top vodka. You'd order it only slightly dirty, if dirty at all. Here's how I call mine: Martini, straight up, a little dry, Hendrick's Gin. However, Martinis are not the easiest to drink at a rowdy bar or club.

At a casual bar with great beer on tap, a good beer would make me do a double take. A Murphy's, a Boddington's, even a black & tan. If they offer good beer and you're drinking junk, I would know better than to talk to you.

I would never order a glass of wine to impress a girl. Especially not at a bar or club. With dinner - fine. But it's not exactly a pick up drink.

I'm not a big fan of guys with mixed drinks - other than margaritas at a mexican restaurant.

A safe bet is a Mojito. Just make sure that you don't get mint in your teeth!! ; )

A good scotch can never go wrong as well. It's a man's man drink. Do a good one (one that's been aged at least 12-18 years) with 1 ice cube only. This will open up the flavour.

But remember, this is just me and I'm a bit of an alcohol snob. Different people are attracted to different things. : )

Answer 2

This depends on a lot of things, least of all what you actually do order.

Sometimes, it depends on the bar. A woman who's trying to get drunk in a madhouse with 1000 customers and one bartender will be impressed if you can order anything at all in less than an hour. If the woman has ever worked in the food service industry, she will also be impressed if you have the gratitude to order something that the bartender knows how to make, and which can be put together quickly. The bartender will also appreciate this. Talk to the bartender at other times, and figure out where he keeps things for convenience to do this best, and select a drink with only one, or two ingredients. In a more upscale establishment that isn't very busy, the women tend to be more "refined," and a sophisticated drink that requires a bit of orange peel exactly three inches long when uncurled might work.

Sometimes, it's the girl. Women with a legal right to be given drinks in a bar will not usually be particularly impressed by anything you buy them, simply because they probably could have bought it themselves... Unless they are using a very fake ID, and are likely to get thrown out any minute... or they cannot afford to buy drinks themselves... or they are too drunk to order themselves, but still want more. So, if ordering a drink is your way to impress, go for the kiddies, the broke chicks, and the booze hounds.

A few women, such as the lady with the six inch wide crucifix, feel guilty for being in a bar at all, and will be most impressed if you order them something nonalcoholic, and suggest to go watch a movie, or do something away from the "den of evil." Others, like the girlie with the playboy bunny tattooed on her forehead, will be impressed with a drink that gets them hammered, with a sexual name that indicates your desire to hammer her.

More often, it's you. When ordering the drink, be sure that you've used good deodorant before raising your arm. Don't stutter, don't slur your words, don't spit, and don't emit a green cloud of halitosis with each breath. Be sure you're wearing clean clothes, with a nice hairdo. Also, women get a real kick out of guys that want to know about them, so find out her name, find out what she's drinking, and ask if she wants another, or something else before you order.

Sometimes it ISN'T you, and ordering a drink, asking if she washes her jeans in windex, offering to dance, or doing anything at all won't impress the lady. In this case, the only thing to do is to screw that Bznatch, and try your game on someone else. Actually, it usually isn't you. Usually before you've found out the girl's name, and what she's drinking, you will have realized this, which is another reason to use a different approach than to just order some random drink for every woman you see, because that gets expensive, and just because she's drunker doesn't mean that you're hotter.

Answer 3

If she's impressed by a drinks order I hope you're not seeking more than good looks.

Though maybe order what she's drinking. If its a weird conncotion and she looks at you strangely it could be a good cue to at least strart a conversation with a little humour.

Answer 4

what kind of woman are you trying to attract? a hipster? order the trendy martini of the week. intellectual or classy lady? red wine. laid back girl? imported beer.

whatever you do, don't order the following or you'll send her running: white zinfandel, strawberry daiquiri, amaretto sour, long island iced tea, purple hooter, anything too fruity with lots of fruit garnish or umbrellas, Miller High Life or Ice House (think Nascar)

Answer 5

It doesn't matter... if you want to impress her, introduce yourself and offer to buy her a drink too. Great way to start a conversation.
Just don't ask them if they come there often.

OK... don't order a drink with an umbrella in it.

Answer 6

i'm impressed by someone who introduces and then says i'll have two of whatever she's having. not only did you just buy me another drink but you played it safe and got what she likes....even if its a "fufu girly drink" you still got alcohol in you and possibly my number in your pocket, or me on the dance floor....and holds true vice versa....that's how i got my man ;)

Answer 7

Smile, tell her you're trying to get away from the usual and ask for suggestions. Maybe slyly add that they shouldn't be too eccentric.

Answer 8

Tequila, hold the groceries. Or my personal DOC Jack and water

Answer 9

A glass of water

Answer 10

Scotch on the rocks.