i recently broke upp with my bf. and now hes going out with one of my friends. im starting to get jealous... i never knew i would miss him this much. he told me he still lovees me. but hes alreadyy with my friend. i think hes planning to go out with me while hes still with my friend. i mean i want to be with him, but i dont want him to cheat on my friend with me.. im not reallyy suree on what to do..
pleeease? help?!
2006-07-19 13:18:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You broke up with him for a reason, and he's probably only with your friend to get your jealous. You need to stay strong in your decision and not fall back into a relationship that you were clearly unhappy with.
2006-07-19 13:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by LTD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-08 02:44:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with the guy and the friend anymore. Your life will go on without this guy. Sure, it will hurt for a while, but things happen for a reason, and you'll end up better because of it. Just be strong, and forget about him. He's obviously not sincere if he's telling you he still loves you while being with your friend.
2006-07-19 13:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give yourself some time to really think about this dude. Get through the first day, then get through the 2nd day and before you know it days turn into weeks and weeks into months. In a short time you will look back and know you made the right decision by discovering who you are. It hurts but stay strong.
2006-07-19 13:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple. If he still loves you he must be honest with your friend and tell her so, thats his job not yours. Secondly if he wants both of you, hes a jerk and you must tell your friend and both of you should dump him and find some one better.
On the other hand if he likes your friend and is not really over you completely, just back off and let them be happy, you had your chance. DO NOT CHEAT OR LIE TO YOUR FRIEND.Be honest-its the only way out and the easiest.
Good luck girlfriend!!!
2006-07-19 13:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by GenuineGemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand by your reasoning that you used when you broke up with him in the first place. Your friend is just a pawn to get you jealous; don't be mad at her. Your ex is just trying to push your buttons. Your friend is the big loser in all of this. Find a man who doesn't play head games!
2006-07-19 13:29:52 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should kick him in the balls and tell your "friend" to screw off. You don't need either of them. I am not sure how old you are but believe me when the right one comes along it won't be so hard to love them. They will do everything they can to make you happy and you should do the same. Make every guy wait for sex he will if you are worth it to him. If you give it up to anyone who wants it soon you will have nothing worth giving.
2006-07-19 13:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Cheese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. If he still loves you, then he would be with you and not your friend. He's being selfish by having both you and your friend. If you are a true friend, you wouldn't let a guy get between the two of you.
2006-07-19 13:22:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, your friend has broken the cardinal rule of friendship. you never, never date a friend's ex. so i wouldn't worry so much about hurting this friend, however if this bf is willing to cheat on her what makes you think he wouldn't cheat on you? plus you got rid of him for a reason. try making a list of all the things you cant stand about him and reading it every time you think about taking him back. p.s. lose the "friend"
2006-07-19 13:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by mypurpleelephant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's planned the whole thing to make you suffer.
and you are falling in the most natural human nature reaction in this case.
what can i tell you? you won't be in peace until you hook up with him again, because now SHE has him...
now if you want to be really smart and strong about this, just ignore him... and start seeing other guys.
if he is REALLY worthy for you then he will cut the relationship with your friend and show you more respect next time you guys break up.
2006-07-19 13:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by Nia24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋