My grandmother died because no one looked after her properly?

Question

My grandmother died because no one looked after her properly, not taking care of her health and all , I am too sad, how to teach a lesson for these ppl ?

Answer 1

My grandmother WAS being treated poorly. My no-longer-maternal-uncle was letting her die before and not taking her to the doctor.

She is being looked after my aunt now and she is doing better but is dying. She is not dead yet. I'm really sorry for you that this happened. I want "revenge" on those bad family members too. She is in India so it's hard for us who don't live there, including my aunt. We all take turns coming to India so that we can take better care of her.

I think karma will get these people when they are of that age and situation.

Usually going after these kind of people give nobody but yourself heartache. I'm sorry to say that, but I've seen it too much with working in nursing homes, etc. But, those people end up miserable themselves when they are in the same shoes. IE their children see what they have done and will learn the same pattern and wreak what they are deserved.

Answer 2

My grandparents were treated the same way by their sons and daughters. You could say it was a subtle but very effective way of murdering them. If you want to teach the people who mistreated your grandmother a very good lesson, this is what you do:

1) Break your ties with these people. They are a bad influence and should never be emulated.
2) Stand on your own and make sure you never end up becoming like the people who mistreated your grandmother.
3) Improve yourself, take and copy things that are good in this life and throw away the bad things.
4) Use whatever anger you have for these people constructively and never let your anger control you.
5) When the time comes that you will meet once again with these people who mistreated your grandmother, just be polite to them but give them the "ice-cold shoulder". Be civil not nice.

It's ok to remember your grandmother and be sad at times but never miss out on the rest of your life.

Hope this can help you. Good luck. God Bless and Peace.

Answer 3

Chitra, So sorry to hear that ur grandmother passed away. And even sad to hear that people who did not take care of her when it was required. That is very much hurting. Hope and find that the way u want to teach a lesson for these people who did not took care. Leave according to your principles and way of life. Let them know that everyone will have a day we all have to undergo this things in life. And rest their doing will give them their fruits. That is lifes mystery. Pls send me a mail on [e-mail] or [e-mail]

Answer 4

Who didn't take care of her? Your family, or was she in an assisted living facility? If she was taken care of by the latter, you could sue them. If it's the former, your family could be brought up on charges of negligence. But if it's your families' fault she died, you'll want to consider carefully what course of action to take, if you are considering legal action. Otherwise, shaming them may not do any good. Either they feel incredibly guilty already, or they may be avoiding responsibility.
I'm so terribly sorry for your loss, and I hope everything works out okay. It takes a long time to go through the grieving process, so you also may want to consider counseling for yourself, if you think it may help. Best wishes.

Answer 5

was she in a nursing home, or her home & no one checking on her. I think she wasn't looked after by the family is what you're saying, sooo sad, but you don't have to teach them a lesson, they've already learned their lesson, as well as you learned one too, they will have to live with the fact they neglected her, & that will haunt them, also, when they get that old, no one will look after them either, so they'll feel it again & again. as for you, you learned the lesson on what not to do, & what should be done, & you will never treat your loved ones that way, even if they were the ones that neglected your grandma, so you learned too. think of it this way, we are all here to learn lessons, & when we have learned them, & have taught them, then we go to our REAL life, no pain, no bills, just love & peace, that's where your grandma is right now! smile, she'd be proud of you for your concern & love!

Answer 6

Its another you can do to anybody don't try to get revenge.. Your grandmother is in a better place( in heaven) It is time for her to get some rest.... I know how you feel. I know your grandmother would want you to be a wonderful person in life. I know you are hurting know that she is gone, but all you can do is pray everyday. Who ever didn't take care of your grandmother right it will come back on them.. Stay Strong & God Bless

Answer 7

First know that she has gone Home and it's not a sad time for her. Grief can be selfish so just enjoy the fond memories of your grandmother because she will be waiting for you on the other side.

There is nothing for you to "teach" your relatives because she is dead. If they didn't learn anything from that situation then that's their issue(s). What goes around comes around -- so just let it go.

Answer 8

Im very sorry for your loss.
I dont think that you can teach a lesson to the people?
The best thing to do is to leave it in Gods hands, trust me. If they are guilty of neglect which caused her death? God will judge them rightiously. Take Care

Answer 9

XXXXXXXXXXXXXX You really don't have to teach a lesson to these people, their conscience is killing them rather they show it or not,and when they meet their maker hell will be their destiny. Don't lower yourself to their level. Keep in mind all the good things your grandmother meant to you and cherish those feelings forever. I know she would not have wanted you to live with revenge in your heart. Good luck hun. XXXXXXXXXXX

Answer 10

I know it's hard to lose someone and who wasn't taken care of properly. But think about it would your grandma want you to go after people for revenge?