what if you have a bf who wants u 2 stuck his dick and u dont want 2 because you never what should i do ?
2006-07-19 13:14:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do it gurl i have been there before he got mad but oh well cauz he just want u as a sex toi for him so dont bother if he keeps buggin u about it then dump him
2006-07-19 13:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Liv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how long you two have been together but if its not longer than 3 months tell that ni&&a to fall back or hit the bricks.Hes obviously beasting!! But if you have some years into it and you trust this dude and love him you don't nessecarely have to, but try to make him happy but at the same time wait til your ready. Dont make him rush you. Unless you are totally against it,then try but if not sorry to say but 9/10 some other chick will if you wont!! Don't let that happen!!
2006-07-19 20:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by "Just Liv" 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to refuse to do so. If your boyfriend is still putting the pressure on you then maybe you should let him go, because he should respect you enough to understand that you don't feel comfortable doing that. If he cares about you enough, he should be willing to do without oral sex.
It's your body, don't let him or any other boy bully you into something. Chances are if you give in and do it then he'll want to do something else freaky and he'll never respect you.
Whatever you choose to do let it be YOUR CHOICE to do it.
2006-07-19 20:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should respect your decision and it also depends on how you feel about him. If you think you don't want to try it and feel like it's not for you then tell him. If you have a strong connection with him and Love him and you wouldn't want another woman to do i for him, then you better suck it up and gets some books and porno and learn your *** off, and when you've think you mastered it give him the best ******** of his life.
2006-07-19 20:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like you.. never had he wanted me to.... but eventually my curiosity got the better of me and I asked if I could try it and if I didn't like doing it would he be okay with that and he said yes.. I started slow and easy and actually came to where I like doing it because I see how much it affects him and I love the way he stares into my eyes it is amazing... ask yourself what it is you don't like about it and then discuss it with him and see if you can both work at it.
2006-07-19 20:19:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do u know y u dont want to do it? i remember b4 i didnt want to do it b/c i thought it was nasty and i told my bf that and he respected it, he never really asked me to do it either. i guess one day i changed my mind about it and i did it, and i liked it. i like pleasing him and to me and it feels like we're connected we're sharinf ourselves w/ each other. i kno it sounds kinda weird but yeah. but if u truly dont want to than don't. if he truly cares and respects u he'll understand and won't try to pressure u. b assertive, and dont cave in if u really dont want to do it
2006-07-19 20:37:36 · answer #6 · answered by foxyluci1215 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i saw a ? dat said my g/f wont suck my dick and then i saw this one & i think theres a connection but he should respect your answer and if he dont tell him to go f**k off
2006-07-19 20:21:19 · answer #7 · answered by bigpimpin45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all i can say is dont if you dont want to but if you do do it. It would proabaly never hurt to try and also ask him to do you first or do you after.
2006-07-19 20:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty 08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a fair warning :if it is against your morals... don't do it! He should respect that ..and if you go through with it you'll never live wit urself!
2006-07-19 20:22:17 · answer #9 · answered by imcool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put it in slowly and suck on the tip at first, then tell him to jam it down your throat so you can get used to it, if you were my g/f you would be deepthroatin' all day and all night cuz i need me some mouf in my life!!!
2006-07-19 20:26:19 · answer #10 · answered by Big Daddy Cake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋