..my x-bf keeps on telling me that he is going to call my bf and tell him that i have two bfs my bf now and my x-bf what should i do
2006-07-19 13:00:56 · 29 answers · asked by KaRiSsA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell your boyfriend about your ex and tell him what your ex is trying to do. honesty is the best policy
2006-07-19 13:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Night visions 6 · 37⤊ 9⤋
Why are you still communicating with your ex-bf? Is your ex trying to blackmail you for some reason?
Whatever the situation, you should cease communication with your ex-bf immediately and let your current boyfriend know that you tried to remain friends with your ex-bf but now he wishes to sabotage your relationship so you cut off communication w/him..
When you tell your ex to stop talking to you, and he threatens to still call your boyfriend just remain calm pretend like you don't care what he does.
Your ex-bf is jealous and is wants you to be unhappy because you are not with him anymore. So reverse the role and take the power away from him.
If it is meant for you to have a good relationship with your current boyfriend, I'm sure your relationship can withstand your silly ex-bf.
Hope this helps!!
2006-07-19 20:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by anosey1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell ur bf wots going on. Explain that ur ex is hassling u & that he wants 2 possibly break the 2 of u up.
2006-07-19 20:07:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jo Jo24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your ex-bf is trying drive a wedge between you & your current bf. He must realize that this won't earn him any points with you - Just the opposite, in fact. Your ex sounds like a controlling, manipulating jerk who still wants to control you. Don't let him. If you haven't discussed this with your "now", you really should & you'll have to trust him to see thru the lies.
2006-07-19 20:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's called harassment or blackmail consult the police and get a restraining order against your EX. then if he breaks the order you can have him thrown in jail.
seriously you need to tell you current guy that your ex is harassing you threatening all sorts and telling all sorts of lies.
explain to the new guy he is the one and only guy you are wanting to be with.
he should then understand and ignore your ex.
if your new guy is the jealous type he may end up thumping or worse your ex.
so remind your new guy he is likely the one going to get in trouble if he hits your ex. and say he (the ex is not worth doing time for).
your ex sounds like a waste of space and the planet would be better off without him.
just my opinion!
good luck with your current guy, i hope all works out for you both.
2006-07-19 20:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your current bf that your ex bf is jealous of your relationship with him and he's being immature about it.
2006-07-19 20:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would the world be like if people who insist in stomping our $h^t would just dry up and go away! This ex is pulling your chain just to make you miserable, he is manipulating you and what I hope is that you tell your current boyfriend what kind of crap you are getting from The Loser, and know he won't believe anything the guy says to him. Truth, and trust.
2006-07-19 20:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by mkayk55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shoudl tell your bf that your xbf is trying to mess up your relationship with him. You can always ignore him too.
2006-07-19 20:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, tell your current boyfriend of his threats and be glad he is an ex...make sure he stays that way by having no contact with him what so ever.
2006-07-19 20:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't..do what I do. Tell your boyfriend that that your ex is being an @$$ and is trying to start trouble and you just want him to know what is being said (or done) good luck.
2006-07-19 20:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first on all you need to tell your new boyfriend what you ex is saying and is going to do. if your new boyfriend trusts you he will understand and its better coming from you than your ex, my ex was bothering me and i told me new boyfriend everything he was great.
Tell you ex that you have told your new boyf everything and he dosn't believe him. if he is still bothering you you can get his number blocked on your phone or mobile, or change your number (although this is a pain i know).
Hope this helps
2006-07-19 20:06:22 · answer #11 · answered by ana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋