i have been in my relationship with the guy i'm dating now for 91/2 months and i think he is something special. so i was wondering if we did something now would it be too early or not so i would like some advice or tips on this. thanks. :)
2006-07-19 12:53:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when he and u get married , so how about on your wedding night, what a special gift to give one another , and then when your daughters ask u about it u can tell them how u waited til that special night and u will be repected for it
2006-07-19 12:57:40 · answer #1 · answered by cc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you and him are both emotionally and physically ready. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 and 1/2 years and we havent had sex yet. Its tempting to have sex, but I told him I wanted to wait til marriage, I guess im old fashioned. He respects my decision to wait and he said he would wait for me. and honestly I still get butterflies every time I see him and spendt time with him..even after 2 1/2 years! If you think its time for you guys to go to the next level then by all means go for it..sex is a beautiful experience that should be shared with a special person...good luck! =)
2006-07-19 13:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think doing it the first date is necessarily too early: my wife and I did, and we're still very happily married a decade and a half later. I think the right time to do it is whenever the right time for both of you is, and you can't make any rules about when that will happen.
So if you andf he both think you're ready, do it, and have fun. If not, don't.
2006-07-19 12:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's all up to you my first boyfriend i made him wait for a year and a half and we lasted for 3 years but that was 2 years ago and my recent boyfriend i wasted no time...the first date to be exact and now he's an ex so...different people different times, when it's right, it's right...you'll know!
2006-07-20 10:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by neisha1030 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best time to have sex in a relationship is when it feels right for you and your man. If you want to, and you both agree to be responsible and go for it, then there it is. If he is still unsure or not ready, don't push him, and don't let him push you. Don't EVER do anything unless you are 100% ready to take this big step in life...
2006-07-19 12:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by ssavage23 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt do it. Is this the person whos going to be there through thick and thin? I havent had sex myself but In my eyes getting married first sounds right and if you do that then sex should come naturally. You dont want to make any regrets, make sure this is what u both want.
2006-07-19 12:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by browneyedcupcake2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after marriage, do you think you really know him as real person? Do you think he still special after marriage? will he still special after marriage? I mean will he be still the same person as he is right now? 9/12 is not long enough to give your body to him. I think sex before marriage is absolutely not a right answer.
2006-07-19 13:22:28 · answer #7 · answered by singing and amen to the Word 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its early at all, you two have been together for such a long time and if you trust him enough, go for it. But you can also wait until you are married, which is something I would do.
2006-07-19 12:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know but are you ready to sacrifice your Morales for a one time fling wait for a little while you say you have been dating him for91/2 months see if he is the one and if he persist than he just wants a hole than you will know what to do your a smart girl
2006-07-19 13:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by James N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm that is simple. When you both are able to accept the responsibilities that bring with sex relations... like pregnancy, STD, and other stuff... May be the marriage
2006-07-19 13:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋