i know this guy we have being trying to schedule a date but everytime at last minute he gets work, how many attempts should you go til you know maybe there is reason its not happening, just looking for thoughts and if anyone may have being in a similiar situation?
2006-07-19 12:38:45 · 15 answers · asked by sugarpantsangel21 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
XXXXXXXXXX I think he's giving you that excuse. No one works 24/7. If he really wanted to date you he could easily meet you duuring his lunch hour. After all, it's the law, everyone has to have a luch hour. The question is, why doesn't he want to spend it with you? Maybe he's shy, maybe he's nervous, maybe he just isn't interested but can't turn you down. Who knows. I wouldn't keep phoning , or emailing him, which ever the case my be. Give him space. Maybe he'll call and ask you ask. In the mean time I wouldn't hold my breath since his track record isn't so great thus far. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-07-19 12:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if hes a doctor and is on call its ok to give him upto about 5chances.If he aint a worker on call, two chances are enough.If he cant make time for a date it means hes trying to avoid you or not really interested, he also probably likes the attention your giving him but is actually in a relationship already.
Remember if the guys interested in you he will come up with a way to actually meet you like make a date with you and tell people at work that he will not be available from this time to this on this day,you know what i mean??
Good luck!!!
2006-07-19 19:46:47 · answer #2 · answered by GenuineGemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try a date you can do spur of the moment. Sometimes things happen. There is no limit to the number of attempts. Just be patient. If the spur of the moment trick doesn't work, then he may be trying to avoid it.
2006-07-19 19:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by goddess17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree - let him come after you. If he wants to really go out with you, you two will get together. Work could be a real reason too. Give him somewhat of the benefit of the doubt.
2006-07-19 19:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're questioning this, then it is obvious that enough is enough. It sounds like you're a very patient and reasonable girl so if something is telling you that things are not working out, then that should be good enough. Remember, us women have very very good instincts! Never doubt yourself. And besides, there are plenty of better guys, just waiting for you!
2006-07-19 19:42:25 · answer #5 · answered by geri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first time can some think happen but the second time you sued get it and never say any think to him and don't ask why or what happen just go out or even you home don't pick up the phone make believe you are not home remember FORBIDDEN FRUIT IT'S ALL WAYS SWEATER the more mystery you have the more men wont you
2006-07-19 19:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by rachel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man is Truly interested in you he will find the time! Unless his work is Life and Death!!!Just depends on how much you really want to go out with him?You could try 3 strikes YOUR OUT!!! NEXT...Good Luck ;)
2006-07-19 19:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by mywaypink 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man worth having is attracted to a woman with confidence. So, be a woman with confidence. Shrug your shoulders, make no attempt to get together with him, be openly skeptical if he tries to make a date with you.
See how long he strings you along then.
2006-07-19 19:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's worth it keep trying to make the date. Give him a couple more chances then move on. Sometime enough is enough.
2006-07-19 19:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if its happened more then three times its a big game to him id say ...just pulling your chain....if he really wants that date he would be there.next time he tries to make a date you be the one to call it off because your hair needs washed........lol
2006-07-19 19:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Twiggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋