I have been dating a guy now for about a month and a half. We are having a great time with each other. We haven't had sex but we have been in "heated" kissing sessions. I have been celibate for about 5 months and he has asked when was the last time I had a sexual encounter. We discussed that and we further discussed that we were (he and I) dating to get to know one another to allow ourselves to get to the "exclusive" part of a relationship, with a positive outcome. He is a real gentleman...unlike anyone I have met before. We have a 15 yr difference in age; he's 48 I'm 33.
I am very curious as to what a man thinks in this situation but all answers will be appreciated.
P. S. I usually date older men so the age difference isn't anything new to me.
2006-07-19 12:27:53 · 17 answers · asked by kemonfoster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right. The age difference is irrevelant. I think 1.5 months isn't long enough to start thinking of a relationship. Keep having fun and keep getting to know each other. If he doesn't ask in say, 3 months and still moving very slowly, you are welcome to ask. There's nothing wrong with it. It is my opinion that right now is too soon for that. You don't want to scare the guy.
2006-07-19 12:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Private Account 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-01 23:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by faes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me, but I don't think a conversation is in order. By all accounts, you are not leading into a relationship, you are already in a relationship. When the time comes to take it further, I doubt words will be necessary then, either.
2006-07-19 12:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by Susan O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to ask him where it's headed. It sounds like the two of you have a pretty open relationship so don't shy away from asking him. Just keep an open mind so that you are not too excited or too crushed to keep things at an even pace after he gives you his answer.
2006-07-19 12:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow his lead. He's a mature gentleman and probably doesn't play games. Appreciate the time you're getting to know him before taking that step. It makes it much sweeter. There's no rush.
2006-07-19 12:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by eehco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time already. It hasn't been long enough to even go for a question like where is this going unless you want him to take off because he thinks you are too pushy. Let him know that you are single and too old to go steady and see if he speeds things up.
2006-07-19 12:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by jodie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
XXXXXXXXX 15 years, wow, that's a big age difference. When he's in a wheel chair you can be his personal nurse. Sounds like a good combination to me. He's probably wanted to tell you what he wants out of this relationship, maybe his lost of memory has a lot to do with his age. 15 years, wow. YOU GO GIRL!!!!! XXXXXX
2006-07-19 12:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont jump in to questions like that it might scare him away,the best thing you can do is leave it a cupple more weeks to see if he asks you what you want. if he doesn't then take him out some were nice and ask him how he feels about a relationship, but make sure that you say you dont mind if he wants to keep on dating for longer but you would like a relationship.
2006-07-19 12:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by shorty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE AGE DIFFERENCE DOSENT MATTER, IF HE IS BEING A GENTLEMAN AS YOU SAY, WHY SHOULD YOU BE THE ONE TO TAKE IT FURTHER ? HE WILL THEN WONDER IF YOU HAVE BEEN CELIBATE FOR 5 MONTH? OR IF YOUR JUST LEADING HIM ON. IF YOU LIKE HIM JUST LET NATURE TAKE ITS OWN COURSE. & GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER.
2006-07-19 12:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is much too great, dearie! He is probably schmoozing you. He is middle aged and you are just out of your 20's......Forget It! I would end it before you get in deeper....again, the age difference does matter......and I hope that you will not find out the hard way!
2006-07-19 12:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋