the girl i'm seeing, is always hanggin around with other blokes. always goes out with them but in the case of one of them shes always with him. she says there just good mates, but can there be abit more to it.
2006-07-19 12:22:56 · 13 answers · asked by scott h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is always with the other, then she is not with you very much. I think she is seeing him instead of you.
2006-07-19 12:24:09 · answer #1 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta ask urself one question: "Are u two really dating?" I mean think about it, if she's always w/ other guys and she's with one of them all the time, then maybe she is seeing him. And if u r suspicious of her dating the other one, then sit her down one day, look her in the eyes, and ask her if she is dating that other guy. Tell her that u need to know, caz if she is then ur not just gonna sit there. U need to play the fields. And, honestly, I think she's playing the fields behind ur back. But make sure to ask her first, caz she might not be. Now, if ur the jealous type, then I can see why she won't tell u if she's dating him. So make sure that if she says she is seeing him, that u won't go psycho, ok? Be understanding.
Oh, and if u break up and after a while she comes crying back to u... make sure u think into the future and what consequences they can hold. Good Luck!! :)
2006-07-19 12:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always had guy friends rather than girlfriends and my bestfriend was a gay guy my boyfriend knew about him and one day after about six months of dating me he got pissed because I had made plans to spend the night at the other guys house and he asked me why and I laughed I had no idea, that he did not know my bestfriend was gay, and I have gone out with other guys who were just friends and I liked their friends and I have spent the night at my straight guy friends hgouse and not had sex or close to it, and we end up hitting on each others friends, if you do not trust this person then dump her and see someone else that you can or get to know her friends as people not the guys you are jealous of and want to mark your territory in front of, nothing is worse than dating someone who behaves like an insecure ball and chain
2006-07-19 12:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really watch her with the blokes or see if there are any way that you can stop her from seeing these blokes. By the way I am hoping that bloke means male friends, right?
2006-07-19 12:27:42 · answer #4 · answered by Erika B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT????
You need to let her know that if she is going to date you that you would like it to be an exclusive relationship. Which means she is to see only you. Just let her know that it makes you very uncomfortable to see her with other men. She may say that you are being insecure, but if she can't handle a monogamous relationship then maybe you should find another girlfriend. It may very well be that they are just friends, but I don't know many men that can have a platonic relationship with a woman unless they are homosexual. GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-19 12:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by chulita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be more to it. But I would be willing to bet that she just likes hanging out with guys as I do. There's nothing romantic or sexual about it. I just enjoy the company of guys over girls. They are more interesting to talk to. On the other hand, ask her if you could join them. If she is uncomfortable with this request....then I would see the red flag for what it is......Good Luck!
2006-07-19 12:28:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mare 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely,there is always more than bein just friends between opp sexes,one will always think about screwin the other,thats life.
2006-07-19 12:26:42 · answer #7 · answered by THE POVES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever heard the song by biz markie its called she says hes just a friend you should listen to it and you will learn what she is doing to you
2006-07-19 12:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, life is too short, enjoy with another one
2006-07-19 21:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by GATTI S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably-I think its time for you to find another girl!
2006-07-19 12:25:49 · answer #10 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋