me and a good friend were going to date..but things didnt work out..and we are just reallly good friends..i was having a really bad day and we got a little to close and he has intense feelings for me. But i dont about him. I feel bad about what happened and told him we couldnt let it happen agian. But i still get the feeling he likes me alot. Am i giving mixed signals?
2006-07-19 12:15:09 · 24 answers · asked by megz9876 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you do
2006-07-19 12:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by prawn_headed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well by getting a little to close to him you probably gave him a little sign that you could've liked him(even though you didn't). The best thing you can do is try to explain to him that you have no feelings whats so ever for him, and that your feelings only go to the boundaries of friends....
2006-07-19 19:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in your shoes before and believe me when i say "walk softly". After a little while and bad relationships I always turned to my friend who I liked but never really liked liked and started to see him in a different way. Eventually I took the plunge and we ended up "shagging" in his car. We both ended up stopping and decided that we couldn't go there, it would ruin our friendship. Needless to say it put a huge void between us. Three days later he caught a plane and I haven't seen him since though we still chat online. Approach the situation wisely and keep your head on straight, there are dire consquences to crossing lines.
2006-07-19 19:31:29 · answer #3 · answered by pq4u72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you told him flat out that you dont want to date and that you only like him as a friend. There is his answer. If you have a bad day again, friends are suppose to be there for you...a shoulder to cry on...if he cant do that without thinking you want him as more than a friend then that is his issue to deal with
2006-07-19 19:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be very carefull if you know that this person is just dying to try to be with you he will more than likely get his hopes up if their is any sudden change in the time you may spend together or how your actions are on a certin day we all need to be held and told things are ok sometimes but it's very hard for someone that wants so much more than you may to understand the meaning of a good friendship in hard times.
2006-07-19 19:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by harley6455 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you make sure there is a bold line between friends and intimate relationship. If you dont have feelings for him you need to tell him because you are leading him on terribly.
2006-07-19 19:19:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you went on a date with im and then u got "close" if you truly dont like him try and push yourself away from that still talk to him and hang out but dont go too far becuase then he will get the vibe that you do have feelings fo him
2006-07-19 19:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now really!!! you must feel something ..it just wasnt that you were feeling down or what ever...you were horney lol (9sorry but tis the truth)) cause if you didnt feel anything but friendship for this guy nothing like that would have happened...we all know that so just tell him how you really feel ...
2006-07-19 19:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already gave mixed signals. Can't really help you any further though. I've never done something that would hurt one of MY friendships like that..........
2006-07-19 19:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by troutpotato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think? You just used your friend because he was convenient, thinking nothing of the fact that you knew he had feelings for you. You got your ego stroked, and he got...what?
2006-07-19 19:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by Susan O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are. Now you got to marry him to make things all better.
2006-07-19 19:19:26 · answer #11 · answered by superdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋