2 guys like me and I like them 2 but I dont know which one to pick. The first one is really outgoing and I like him more than the other one. The other one is really shy. Both of them are sweet but I dont know which one to pick. I'll have to break one of there hearts. What should I do
2006-07-19 11:58:55 · 33 answers · asked by hottiewholovesguitars 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take your time to become friends with both and get to know them first. Then you will know more about them and their likes and dislikes. Afterward, you will be able to make a wise decision.
2006-07-19 12:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by hodgesandguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between "dating" and "cheating". Right now you aren't committed to either one of them. Go out on a date with both of them and see which one you like better. But honestly, it sounds like you've already made your decision....you like dude #1 the out going one.....I think the bigger problem is you don't want to tell dude #2 because you have been hurt before and you know how it feels to be hurt....but this is the game of life my dear.....someone always gets hurt......he'll get over it though......its not the end of the world and there are definitely worse things he could be going through at this instant than a girl rejecting him. Just let him down slowly and easily.....be truthful....he will thank you for being so nice later.
2006-07-19 12:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to your heart. and dont try to break the other guys heart just try to be friends. cuz you never know the one that is outgoing might not be so outgoing. how well do you know them. If you dont know them that much just be friends with both of them and then see which one you really like. and remember sometimes the out going guy isnt the best. i like to think of it when i am in situations like this "the outgoing guy might be really going out with another girl (cheating)"
good luck
2006-07-19 12:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with both be a player than after the first date u will see which one u like more. they dont have to know that u went out with both of them
2006-07-19 12:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by lowkey616 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should first just hang aroud them and wait a while the guy whos shy is bciz hes nervous around u but if u give him some time he'll show u who he really is! just talk 2 each 1 alone and chill witht them in teh end u'll know which 1s rite 4 u! good luck!
2006-07-19 12:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the shy one, he would surprise you.
Actually we chose and get mostly what we deserve, follow your heart.
Its just that I'm shy and fantasizing these days. Any woman who wants a REALLY horny guy who would do almost anything for a woman who wanted to please him too, pick me. It would be better than winning the lottery for the right woman. I've been waiting 20 years masturbating 3 times a day, the right woman would NOT be dissappointed. Tested and clean too.
2006-07-19 12:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what "dating" is! You go out with more than one person to see who you really like. You may decide you don't really like either one. Or it may turn out you like the shy one better. Give them both a chance.
2006-07-19 12:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by CherBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with the outgoing one. Shy people are boring.
2006-07-19 12:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, neither is asking you to marry them! Why not have a date with each of them? Just because a guy asks you for a date, does not mean they are asking you to be in a committed relationship.....since you may be one of many girls they ask out! Don't get too cocky, sweetie.......be a nice girl and be in the moment and don't think for one moment that you are the to die for girl.......for you may be the one with the broken heart when it is all said and done!!!
2006-07-19 12:05:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow ur heart.
It can be pretty difficult breaking the heart of a sweet guy but you have to choose mbtw them. It's ur heart dat's gonna be broken if dey find out about eachother.
They're going to dump u and dat's it.
2006-07-19 12:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋