We only knew each other for 3 months and one of the months I was gone. Now he thinks he is going to make me his wife. e always stops by and trys to give me money but I want nothing for him and I have told him that. When I tell him I don'twanna be around him, he yells at me and calls me a drug using slut, among many other things. 5 minutes later he calls or text me telling me how much he loves me and that I'm still his girl. I've tried to be nice. I've tried to be a ***** and nothing is working. Even if I don't anwser his calls he kinda stalks me I think. HELP ME OUT GIRLS PLEASE!! {or guys if you got any ideas}
2006-07-19 11:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by babyangeljaneaerts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've already heard the better answers, above. If you tell him that you've met someone else and are dating someone else- that won't work. Is your safety in danger? Crazy can mean many things, I'm not afraid of crazy people. I'm concerned about violent people, obsessive people, vulgar people, drug addicts, liars, abusive people, thieves, you get the picture. I hate to say it, but you may want to consider moving away if you can. By calling the cops, you're opening an ugly can of worms that will still leave you with feelings of guilt and possible retribution. I hate being stalked, hounded, followed, and excessively pursued.
Good Luck. I've given you my best advise.
2006-07-19 12:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. That always sends a message. Then if he comes by you can call the cops.
2006-07-19 18:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by rollo_tomassi423 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make sure he is listening and if he don't stop you need to call authorities to have a restraining order on him cuz its not healthy and he seems very verbally and physically abusive. I was stalked by my X and eventually when you mean business they will back off but don't allow him to interfer in you life if you don't want him in it lifes to short.
2006-07-19 18:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by wildrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you find a solution tell me cause I'm going through the same thing if you look at me questions too his always talking about he would someday want me to be his wife and that I don't know what I want right now and he wants to only help me
2006-07-19 19:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order.
2006-07-19 18:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by DC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! what an obsessive freak. tell him if he keeps doing it u will have to put a restraining order against him :P or just ignore him. change your no. etc. and don't hang around the area he usually hangs around etc. good luck
2006-07-19 18:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is scary and very serious stuff. In my state you could get a restraining order. You should look into it.
2006-07-19 18:55:25 · answer #7 · answered by CDK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where do you live? i no some people that can get him to leave you alone! or get a restraining order out if you're that worried
2006-07-19 18:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by sexylilbiatch1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a user.....drug user that is...... do you guys use meth?/speed?///// Hell tell him you have an incurable STD and itch yourself down there when he comes around !!! Scare him away!
2006-07-19 18:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Jewel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM IF HE DOES'NT LEAVE U ALONE U CALLING THE POLICE.
2006-07-19 18:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by M$. N!CK@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋