2006-07-19 11:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's impossible. You could only lessen the pain, by being calm and careful and lie a little.
Tell them that you respect them and like them a lot but you do not deserve them. That you want the freedom to find yourself.
The person may actually beg you to stay with them, but just repeat your reason and leave right away.
Do not converse again with them after that - give them the time to get use to being without you.
2006-07-19 11:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always hurt them - you are rejecting them. Just be firm, clear and kind. Keep it brief and don't let it drag out.
A clean break is best.
2006-07-19 11:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by slipstreamer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure to be as nice as possible unless they star acting up first. think of all the dislikes or turn offs u have with them and if they ask why respond with the facts dont hold em in.
2006-07-19 11:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard..but do what you gotta do. it is just not worth the time and energy if it is not working out... u just gotta tell the person the truth and how u felt etc. tell them it is not in ur intention to hurt them like this but u just do not want to deny your feelings etc... blabla... just be nice about it and stay friends?
2006-07-19 11:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ..... I was in the same situation be4 and i sloved it with a CRAZY ! but fun idea !
I started doing weird things and things i know he hates ..... and tried to make him feels tht he didnt want me ! then he was gone and i was single again ! tht was GREAT !
i think u should try it !
2006-07-19 11:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by perfectby.nature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say u cant break up without SOME hurt feelings. but also it depends on how long they have been together...
i hate breakups.......=[
2006-07-19 11:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by azndiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy them something nice and maybe even tell them about someone else they could go out with.
2006-07-19 11:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u will always hurt thier feelings but they will get over it soon but i broke up with my bf and i just relized i was in love and i feel bad... so think before u do breck up
2006-07-19 11:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by tonya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are on the same page as you, you wont hurt their feelings, but if its not, there's no wway around hurting their feelings. good luck
2006-07-19 11:48:39 · answer #9 · answered by Your_Star 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. There's nothing worse than lying.
2006-07-19 11:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by ConcernedCitizen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋